Your different views on this situation are a huge red flag, and I recommending strongly considering a break up. Your boyfriend resents you for being in control of your body. Take a moment and think about how horrible that is.
Asking him to wear a condom isn't a trust thing. It is a health thing. It is a pregnancy thing. It is a self-respect thing. Your boyfriend doesn't see it that way, because he is a selfish misogynist.
You're in charge of your health, not him. If he can't understand that, you need to leave him.