He's thinking that he's leading a charmed life. He's thinking that he can have his cake and eat it too. He's thinking that no matter what he does his wife will stick with him.
Just like dealing with little children, you need to be consistent, if he screws you over once and let him get away with it, he learns that he can do anything he wants and there will be no repercussions. The thing he doesn't realize is that someone is probably going to do serious physical harm to him, either your brother, or the boyfriend of one of these girls he's cheating on you with or who knows.
Not much more you can do than dump this complete loser. Think of it this way, do you want HIV? Good chance this will be this dude's parting gift to you if you don't bail on him soon.
Very true Mystery Man. People who cheat are bound to bring something else into the relationship, STD's HIV/AIDS. That's nothing to play around with. If this woman doesn't get her sense together and divorce him. There's no telling what could happen to her, in a way, if her husband does cheat again and contracts either an STD or HIV/AIDS. It's a direct threat to her safety. She just needs to divorce him and move on.
By the way, if he's cheated twice on her, I suggest she get a test done to rule our any STD's HIV/AIDS. These days, you can't be to careful. This woman only has one life and one body and she shouldn't risk that to save a marriage that's already on the rocks.
AGREE! C'mon girl, it doesnt take a fool to know that this guy is having it good. Some guys are only see themselves and definitely does not see your pain, sufferings, and heartache. Those are the guys who SUCK big time like tiger woods, lettermen, and every other guy you see. Not that theyre bad guys, but they ARE just selfish! YOur pain is yours and you need to leave before youve wasted too much time because life is too short hun. Hes never going to think "oh im hurtin her", hes thinking "shes not going to leave me". Some guys cant think or imagine your own sufferings, or wont even allow themselves too. Selfish?? YAHHHH! girl, hop on your boat and paddle away before the tides get you.
Brea??
Its stories like these that make me glad i'm single....
I have NO respect for women that say with their men. Are you afraid you can't support yourself? Is it low self esteme? Figure it out. You only have one life, why should you be miserable? Thats just stupid
It's all about self-esteem. My daughter's husband has cheated with any number of women in the two years they've been married, given her STD's, and generally treats her like garbage. Sadly, both daughters grew up with their father cheating on their mother, being physically and verbally abusive, and ultimately moving in with the babysitter before they were even separated legally. As a step-father, I do everything I can with my wife to build that esteem and confidence, but the girls spent ten years with that 'role model' before I came along.
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Several years ago I cheated on my kids mother. I was a much younger, more selfish, and a much dumber man then. My son is now 18 and my daughter is now 16. They are both good kids and deserve better. Last week their mother told them what happened 14 years ago. My son is handling it ok but my daughter is very upset, and not even talking to me. I have always taught my kids to be better..... to never make excuses.... to always expect more of themselves and others. They have always had a lot of respect for my character so this is a serious blow.
1) How do I teach my son that it is not ok to cheat on his gf's or wife? To not lie just because it might benefit him at the time?
2) How do I get my daughter to not throw out all of the positive things I taught her over her life when she wont even talk to me?
3) How do I deal with the guilt and pain that I have related to my baby girls "hate" for me?
I have always been there for my kids and judged other fathers harshly for not doing the same. I will not run or abandon them but the pain of this is intense that for the first time running away seems like a less painfull option. Retiring to a beach in Mexico or Guam seems like the answer. Im not going to do that I am just trying to illistrate how bad it hurts.