Believe it or not (Ripley), I have heard men say this before. Well, not the message, or massage (I assume you mean massage...totally lost as to what a message feels like...wonder if it feels like waffles tastes?), but that they just don't really enjoy BJs. Which, as you can imagine is a very difficult time for any young lass.
We're all taught that you want to get a BJ from a chick. It's the summit of some mountain that all men climb. So to finally get there and find out that there was an elevator that took you all the way to the top and the view isn't even all that great kind of annoys us. Much like getting a BJ and never enjoying it. You're supposed to love the mouth hug..covet it...seek it.
But alas, there are probably more men that let on who do not enjoy the mouth hug. I'm not one of them. I will say this, it could be user error. Basically, buddy has gotten bad mouth massages from the wrong women. Now you all are married and I'll assume that you know what you're doing so perhaps he really doesn't like them. It saddens me. And it saddens me for you since most women I've encountered actually enjoy providing such service.
But I'd believe him. And then burn a fakewang in effigy as a symbol of the sexual escapade gone awry.
As long as you all are smackin' bellies though I wouldn't stress it.
Yes my bf said the same thing. I have never heard of any man not enjoying this. I don't know what to do for these type of blokes!
My fiancee docent like bj's either and honestly....I feel like the luckiest girl in the world. He is an amazing, considerate lover who will do anything to please me ... Plus, is good enough to spare me the rediculosity of having to give head. Love him. ( don't get me wrong, if he wanted it, he'd HAVE it in 2 seconds flat with gusto ... But lucky for me, it's a non issue)