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My husband’s friend is very cruel to me when my husband isn’t there. He says my husband doesn’t find me attractive, sex with me is a chore, he doesn’t understand why anyone would want me, etc. (Its only gotten worse since i became pregnant). I know he's lying but why is he being so cruel? Should I tell my husband?

Of course you should tell your husband. And then your husband should punch this guy square in the jaw and never speak to him again. What kind of scumbag speaks to a woman that way? Particularly one who is his friend's pregnant wife.

He's being cruel because he's a selfish piece of garbage. Like a child, he feels threatened by you. He thinks that you and the baby will take away his friend. Or he's just a miserable sociopath who enjoys hurting people. Whatever the reason, he's literally the worst.

Tell your husband immediately. Also, stand up for yourself. Tell him to f--k off and never come back. Don't let him in your house if he's going to speak to you that way. Do you want your child to be around someone like him? Get him out of your life immediately. You don't need that kind of stress right now. And tell your husband; he needs to know what his friend is saying. Also, he needs to stand up for you and ditch this so-called friend. Though it really makes me wonder what sort of person would be friends with a guy like that. How well do you know your husband? Is this a good friend? Does he know about his friend's dark side? This is not someone you want to be in your life. If your husband loves you, he'll dump this friend for good.
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chrissie1101

worse since you got pregnant? for real? yeah, that's a class act, knocking down the pregnant woman when her husband can't hear him. seriously, yes, listen to every word Nick says, and please film it when your husband goes out and clocks this piece of work which is exactly what his response should be. you poor thing. who cares WHY he is being this way, say goodbye and count your blessings. if your husband honors and respects you he will not blame you one bit.

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Yes! Please record/video the "friend" in the act of treating you this way. Then you will have accurate data that no one can refute or mix up.

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