Well I think that you might have answered your own question. Your guy might very well be interested in you, but he's also very interested in other women and not fully committed to your relationship.
Either that or you are THE most understanding woman on the planet. If a man really wants to be with you he'll make you feel special or at least make efforts to do so. One of those ways of doing so is to stop attemping to bag other chicks and making his time all about you. If I were you, I'd just ask him straight up what the deal is. I realize that you probably want to work things out because you care about him and possibly love him. But you also need to be concerned about yourself here. If he really wants to be with you, he's going to need to let all the extra-curricular activities go.
And if he's not willing to, then you have your answer. You will know exactly what he's all about if you tell him how you feel and he doesn't care. Then you can go out and get yourself some numbers.
Great answer! I just got out of a relationship like this. It was horrible and I wish I had the courage to end it sooner.
Yeah, great answer, Panama.
I (unknowingly) met a guy like this and after several months, got a call from his girlfriend wondering why I was calling and texting him. Needless to say, I got away from him immediately (and let her know she could tell him never to call me again) and left her to decide what to do.
He had been telling her I was someone he knew from work, and telling me he had no girlfriend. I should have known, though. My ex used to cheat on me, and talk to those women right in front of me all the time and I rationalized who they were, too...
Listen to Panama. He has given you very wise counsel. Take care of yourself if he is not treating you right.
Yes, I was in a relationshipp like that and ended up as a "break-up". It was really bad because he had girls' numbers and wouldn't let me answer his phone or even touch his phone. I even had it locked so I couldn't see the phone calls of texts messages. Being secretive in a relationship is not good at all because ther shouldn't be any secrets if "love" is there.
come to find out when we "officially" broke-up he was already moving in with the other woman with no problem just like that. It was painful but also a lesson learned