wow

Married boyfriend...is that one of those fun oxymoron kind of things? Like honest politician?

Well my one cent is this: Cheating, besides the point. Sometimes you fall for "taken" people. We're curious, we're loving, we're impatient...it happens. And it kinda sucks for everyone involved (even the "cheaters"), so there.

But with that comes the uber responsibility that you may just have to lie in said bed o' crap until you can afford a Sleep Number one instead. No complaining about the price you now have to pay for having this married boyfriend.

I think karma is charging about 35.999% APR these days.
Just...give it more than the minimum payment and you'll be fiiiiine.

Also, you may want to look into the recommended groveling technique John spoke of. Times are tough. :D

Wow you are unhappy because you can't have your cake and eat it too? How would you feel with the roles reversed here? Instead of you it was your husband putting his body parts into another woman who was married and he called her his girlfriend? And don't try to tell me you wouldn't get pissed when you found out he was boning someone else...

If however you are into open relationships don't you think that's something you should have um, I don't know, TALKED to your husband about it either BEFORE the marriage or when you thought you might want to experiement with that idea? Seriously there's nothing wrong with exploring ideas, after all that's how some useful inventions happened is because someone had an idea and tried it out til it became something, but still even inventors don't get things done all alone. They you know discuss their ideas and get help with it instead of sending silent mindwaves hoping others would know about their ideas and magically help them. And so you should have siad so to your husband about the idea of open relationships (again only if you were into the idea, not to be used as an excuse) because the moment you went and let your "boyfriend" ,who is as you said MARRIED, do anything beyond a friendly hug that became cheating.

There's no hiding that fact one bit at all. So boohoo to you and the fact you most likely aren't getting any play now. I don't feel ONE bit sorry for you simply because you were being a dumb person in hoping you can hide this, lay down in that stinky bed til karma plays itself out for you no matter how long it takes. This is why I back off when I find out a guy is taken. Karma can be a bitch but not nearly as bitchy as theother woman scorned, which in this case is your "boyfriends" WIFE! And I'm also sure she wouldn't be thrilled in finding out your claiming HER HUSBAND as "yours"

So if that gal comes to clean your clock over this don't be surprised.

meanie-weenie...lol Priceless

LOL @ crap bed made of crap! Genius.

Yeah, I've made crap beds in the past and I can say with authority that if you're stupid enough to make one, then you must lie in it until you learn your lesson. It's the only way to grow the fuck up.

dude, this was obviously a joke.