You're welcome! Glad to help. (Read her question here.) I also have to give credit to our readers for their great comments and advice. You guys are so wise.
I'm also proud of you for standing up to your ex. Remember, you made the right decision. It might be difficult right away, but in time you will find a nice guy who loves you the way you are. Then one day you'll see your slimy ex eating alone in a diner and you'll laugh and wonder what you ever saw in him.
As for everyone else, I would love to know if my advice-- and the words of the other guys-- has helped you. We want to hear what happened after we chimed in. Did you ask the cute geek at the Apple Store out for coffee? Are you still snooping on your boyfriend? Did your boyfriend actually move in with a Playboy Playmate? We want to know! Leave your "after stories" in the comments (or submit them to me in the question box) and I'll compile the best responses for a future GuySpeak blog post.
I'm also proud of you for standing up to your ex. Remember, you made the right decision. It might be difficult right away, but in time you will find a nice guy who loves you the way you are. Then one day you'll see your slimy ex eating alone in a diner and you'll laugh and wonder what you ever saw in him.
As for everyone else, I would love to know if my advice-- and the words of the other guys-- has helped you. We want to hear what happened after we chimed in. Did you ask the cute geek at the Apple Store out for coffee? Are you still snooping on your boyfriend? Did your boyfriend actually move in with a Playboy Playmate? We want to know! Leave your "after stories" in the comments (or submit them to me in the question box) and I'll compile the best responses for a future GuySpeak blog post.
Way to sock it to that jerkface! Score one for women with self-respect and self-assurance! HELLZ YEAH.
And I agree about the advice being good, even reading advice for problems that aren't exactly my own helps me out. You guys do an amazing job!
Way to go, Question Asker!
I'm really glad that you decided to do some good for yourself! Don't worry, you'll have no trouble at all in finding a new, true love. Men love confident, self-respecting women, right, Nick?
This made my day. Score one for the good guys and gals.
ALL RIGHT, GIRLFRIEND!!!
You can do so much better than some idiot who doesn't think that you're wonderful just the way you are.
Btw, that guy is so old; he's older than my dad. Where does he get off still thinking that big jugs are the beginning and ending of the world?! Does he still read MAD magazine, too? What an immature dick!
"Then one day you'll see your slimy ex eating alone in a diner and you'll laugh and wonder what you ever saw in him"
I'd prefer not to see my ex - but I still laugh & Definitely wonder what I ever saw in him. Oh, and he was pretty slimy, too.
Some of the best advice given on GuySpeak --
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^^-- being a young adult is hard. I've gotten some counseling, and it helped me so much. I would recommend it to anyone and everyone. It's a good option not just for insecurity but just for dealing with life and its stresses. Absolutely loved this answer.
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^^-- it was written in a blog to look for answers similar to questions you might have before posting one. I luckily stumbled upon this answer in a time of need. Better yet, I posted a comment and Cary responded. It helped ease the anxiety and guilt I was having.
There are so many great answers. When I found this site, it was still rather new. It seems to be very popular now and I try to keep up with all the posts. You never know when you might find yourself in a situation similar to any answers already on here and having all this advice/knowledge could really put you ahead of the game in those moments.
(I could go on and on about my love for the site and the guys, but I will refrain.)
Thanks for everything! The site is great - very entertaining and also very informative. :) :)
Good for you, I personally had breast augmentation done for Myself and it was a big decision that was not made lightly or for the benefit of my boyfriend. I figured who cares what a man thinks, he may or may not be there forever but I will have to live w my decision forever.