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Nick, you're pretty Bombtastic so naturally, I come to you for advice. I just started dating this awesome guy (over a month, still very new) and his birthday is coming up in May - he's mentioned it playfully. I love to bake, so I'm going to bake him something, but should I also buy him a gift or is this too much?

Thanks! I've never been called "bombtastic" before. That's awesome. Also awesome is baking something for your new guy's birthday. That's the perfect gift for someone you've been dating for a short time. It's a way of sharing your interests with him, while also going after his heart via the stomach. Always a good plan.

I'm a huge fan of the handmade gift. My friend, who's a really great artist and animator, always makes short animated cards for his friend's birthdays. He sees it as both a way to flex his creative muscles and give his pals a gift that they can't get elsewhere. (Anyone can buy a gift card, after all.) 

As for what else to get, I would say stick with the baked goods. Since it's early in the relationship, you don't want to overload him with gifts and put the pressure on. A card would be nice. If you do buy him something else, keep it small. Maybe a DVD of a movie you guys watched together, or a CD of that band you told him about. Something that says, "I saw this and it made me think of you. Now let's make out."

But, seriously, I love the baking idea. It's a sweet gift that lets you share your interests with him. (And you get to enjoy it together-- it's not just something he's going to put on a shelf and never use.) He's a lucky guy!
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Aww!! That was a sweet response.
I once made a guy a rustic notebook in my binding course. The covers had his favourite colours and I used special sheets of paper so he could sketch as he loves to draw... He loved it and uses it all the time (while thinking of me!!)

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