About the only way you can fix this one is to stay away from him, which may or may not work, but it's your only hope. Guys generally like to do the pursuing, but beyond that the behavior you are describing probably makes him think you are going to off him at some point. Stalking freaks people out like no other activity.
On top of the stalking thing, a guy may think there is something wrong with you if you are that interested in him. It's human nature.
If you let him contact you next, there is a chance you can salvage this, otherwise, move on.
I like someone else's (sorry, can't remember whose it was) advice from a few days ago: If he blew you off and never responded about dinner, why would you WANT to work it out? He's a douche. He's showing you that right up front. If you don't pay attention and complain later when you see more douche behavior, that's on you.
MM- FOLLOW UP QUESTION.... this guy still hasn't called, but sometimes leaves "thumbs up" "LIKE" responses on my facebook status and a comments on my post. ISN'T THAT ODD IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK? Why does he maintain this contact, but wont call/text/email me back? thanks