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Ok so I was seeing this guy for a week. We were official...i think. Anywho, i havent heard from him in a week. Should i call him to break it off officially or just not contact him at all?

So let me get this right, you're not even sure you were officially together, and you're worried about breaking off this relationship - officially - with a guy who has altogether stopped contacting you?

I just want to make sure I got the gist of this one.

I think that if you haven't heard from him a week, there's no need for you to break off anything officially. It's pretty damn broken off on its own. The only reason you should try to contact him is to figure out why you haven't heard from him. Except you seem to be through(hence the desire to break it off officially), so why waste your time?

Dude clearly isn't your boyfriend. One thing about men, when we want to be with you, there's no hemming and hawing, we let you know. That whole official or not thing? Wouldn't be an issue. You'd know. Since you didnt know, you were not.So there's nobody to break up with.

Plus, you were seeing eachother for a week. While I realize that God did a whole lot in a week, you probably did not establish the foundation for a lifelong relationship full of love, admiration, respect, and honor. Or more simply, he wasn't your boyfriend and you should just keep it moving.

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bgirl

Do some of the questions women write to you guys scare you? Because as a woman I am completly shocked with the posititions women put themselves in. WTF.

Camille

I think its safe to say some of these "women" are pretty young girls. I might've asked something like this when i was in middle school

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Poor Panama, you get the strangest questions! Good thing you are the Girls' BFF, because a lot of the girls who write to you seem somewhat delusional. Heaven forbid they ask Mystery Man these questions.

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I bet this question was written by a high schooler

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