Unless you work in Hollywood, I'd wager that it's probably not best to date the boss.
By the way, this question went about 799 different ways and I can honestly say I did not expect your question to come down to whether or not your boss staring at your nipples was a romance worth exploring. Totally didn't see that one coming.
I have to wonder how appropriate it is to go to work sans bra if there is a possibility of peas-and-corn happening. It just seems slightly workplace tabooish. I used to work at a place where this one particular woman ALWAYS had her nipples fighting her shirts and I thought it was quite inconsiderate and rude. Mostly because, I mean, how can you NOT look? Even women were staring at her boobs. Nipples are intriguing for whatever reason. Try sitting through a meeting being given by a woman whose blouse looks like two teepees fighting for reservation space.
Anway, dating a boss is generally frowned upon, which is why so many companies have no fraternization policies on the books. It creates a tense environment where you might get extra favors (that's good) but everybody else that works with you will hate you (that's bad). Now you might be able to get some breakroom booty (that's good), but what if you get caught (that's bad)?
Plus, you do not want to bring your personal issues into the workplace as many couples are wont to do.
Basically, go bone a colleague that doesn't sign your checks.
And get a bra.
It was written.
I have never went to work without a bra on... and my nipples "fight my shirt" every single day, not inconsiderate, just can't help it (and yeah I have even tried a padded bra, when they get that hard even pads don't stop it completely!)
you obviously havent discovered decent bras, need help?
not if they are lightly padded. I wonder why some women always want to draw attention to themselves using these kinds of methods and then complain about being treated like a piece of meat. No matter how big or sensitive your nipples are, there are always bras that can cover them up if they are padded right. So please ladies, no excuses!
There's also those bras with special flower inpressions where the nipples go to give extra coverage (i used to work in lingerie). There are plenty or bras that can mask hard nippples. God, this woman must have huge like gorilla nipples or something! Lol if I were her I would be doing everything to cover that up haha.
I'm not buying it - are there people really clueless enough to not wear a bra to work? Color me cynical.
Maybe if shes really really flat chested, like so flat you can cover them up with a bandaid. Oh man....Don't do that again lol . I have a bad habit of not wearing underwear, but I mean I'm always wearing tight pants (this is my reasoning, I just don't want to see underwear lines) .
there are other times where I don't wear a bra for comfortable reasons and I have really big boobs I just know not to wear a white shirt :)
The only time I don't wear a bra is when I'm home in my pajamas. Otherwise, I make sure the girls are well covered. As Panama said, it's just common courtesy.
Even if you have to use a bit of kleenex, keep the high beams under control!
Hmm...is this "asker" for real? Looks a bit like a stunt email for shock value!
I can only imagine a guy's version...
"My 9 inch johnson hangs out the bottom of my tight spandex running shorts when I'm doing lunges on the beach, and I dont understand why girls wont stop looking at me"...
hahahaha
Come on now, nipple girl. Do you REALLY wonder why the boss was staring? Puh-leeeese.
I think the 'cool to date the boss' thing has been explained in many MANY TV shows and real life issues.
I think EVERYONE knows that doesn't work.
You are right. I can't help but stare at nipples popping out through a shirt too.
this question and all of its replies made me laugh! Thanks for the laugh.
i started fooling around w my boss at work on my second week there lol...its been a year and we are still together, i go to work without a bra on, but that is only to get attention =]
My nipples stick out too.. all five. The only bad point though is that I am a cow. Mooo.
not because it could get him n you in trouble or even fired!
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