You've got to learn how to manage expectations. And to be fair, that's a common problem for everybody, man or woman. We all want to believe that we found the one because some person makes us feel good.
Of course, I don't know exactly how you're being let down? Are you sleeping with these guys and then they bounce? Are you further down the emotional line than they are? I need more details. But generally speaking, my guess is that perhaps you need to figure out exactly what is disappointing you and then trying to avoid gettng caught in that situation.
Maybe you let your mind wander and start attaching your last name to his after a good date. Hardly unusual behavior but you've got to keep yourself in check too.
The best way to not be disappointed is to not expect anything in the first place. I know that sounds a bit pessimistic, but it is true. Especially when it comes to matters of the heart. Often, many of us will give all of ourselves too early (I don't just mean physically, but emotionally as well) and then wonder why somebody bailed. Too much, too soon. You can be a hopeless romantic. You've just got to find another one to be that way with. Compatibility is paramount.
I've often found that the most bitter people I know remain that way because they believe everybody else is wrong or should change to their way of thinking. The world doesn't work that way. Happiness is about compromise and I think that (of course, without more information) that you're going to need to examine how you manage to end up disappointed and then make adjustments.
I know the feeling. I try really hard not to have expectations when I first meet a guy that in some ways it can also backfire because I will try so hard not to put much thought in it that I come off as being not interested. Which isn't the case I just don't want to be letdown/rejected again (which always happens in the end).
What kind of odds are you looking at exactly? I can tell you as a guy that out of every 100 girls I talk to, perhaps 1 or two of those lead to further conversations. Out of every 30 or so further conversations, 1 or 2 have led to actual relationships.
Welcome to the real world.
Whats your point?
His point is, she's likely had too few romances to have found a guy that clicks so perfectly, using his own experience as example how hard it is to find the right person.
Heck, I wish I had that rate of success!
Stop watching romantic comedies.
I'm not hoping for perfection, I'm just hoping for Something, you know? Every time I meet a guy and it seems like he's interested, he's flirting, he wants to talk and spend time together, he thinks I'm attractive and I start to think he's interested - and then bam, out he goes, he's not interested in dating me. It stings. I must be doing something wrong, but I try to show interest in the guy , I'm told I flirt well, and I'm aware of my flaws and try to improve myself as a person. I also have @Name's problem of then sometimes trying so hard to not get my expectations up (and by expectations, I mean like hoping for a date or two) that I come off as uninterested. I am 25, have never dated, even when I initiate it and I pursue the guy, and am just tired of disappointment now.
Hmmmm...it sounds like something(s) you are doing, perhaps unconsciously, that could be driving or scaring guys away. I think the operative word is "try". You are "trying", perhaps that's causing you to do little things unawares that might turn off men. Wish I could say specifically what it is. Unfortunately, there's no dating critiques, no one to pull you aside and point out what you did good, what you could have done better, and "OMG couldn't believe you did that!!!". Then we wonder and think on it, which probably influences us even more on future dates.
My suggestion, easier said than done I realize, don't try, and don't think too much on it. Reflect on your interactions with men that went the best and recall what you were doing, then do those things again with future interactions with men, dates or not. Also, try as you may, if you are bitter, its gonna show up unconsciously in your actions. Don't worry if you aren't in a relationship yet, it doesn't define you and doesn't prove you're some sort of failure. Live your life on your own terms, have fun on your own terms. When I stopped caring whether, I had a GF or not, that's when things started coming around.