I think every Friday, I'm going just answer a question that doesn't need answering. Yes, I think that's what I'll do.
Kind of like this question. I mean, the answer is clealry "yes". But everybody knows that already. I mean do women find it attractive? How does it make you feel to grab your man's back and you think you're reading a book in braille? Thing is, for a lot of people it's not a dealbreaker, but no, most folks don't find it attractive.
Shucks, folks don't find facial acne (facne?) attractive. It's called a blemish for a reason. I once spilled ink all over my rug. Totally ruined it. What a blemish. It was no longer a hot Persian rug. It became a Persian rug with ink on it. And what does that have to do with the price of iPhones on Easter Island? Nothing, but it was a blemish. Blemishes are no bueno.
Back to bacne, I'm curious as to who would actually seek that out as an attractive attribute? I know people have lists. Who has that listed on their must-haves for a mate? Here's the thing though, once again, it's not really a deal breaker. We all have our own imperfections. I'd go into the list of mine, but my current pic does all the damage to my esteem that I can take for this week.
Anyway, if "bacne" is your problem, don't fret. I doubt it will ruin your dating life or anything. Plus there are always tshirts. Just make the guy fall in love with you first THEN let it all hang out.
It was written.
There are no dumb questions, just dumb people. "Bacne" should probably be the least of this person's concerns.....
Jesus, why you gotta be so mean? Like you're not insecure about something... God damn, stop being cruel on the internet-- these are real people! Your mean comment says so much more about you than it does about the girl asking this question.
Girl asking this question: EVERY. BODY. has some serious complaints about some physical trait or other on their own bodies (I have giant thighs, even at my thinnest-- damn you, Irish ancestors!). But the key is to manage those insecurities, realize we're all human, and play up your other beautiful and astonishing human characteristics.
The dude I am dating is COVERED IN HAIR from head to toe, and he's really ashamed of it--- and do I love it? Not really. But I adore him. No one who likes you and is attracted to you is going to give much more than a rat's ass about some bacne.
calm down. she's not insulting anybody!
Well, if she meant a couple of little pimples, I can understand her question...I think many people get a pimple or two on their backs from time to time, if that was the case, I wouldn't worry--no one is perfect, and I doubt they'd notice. But if it's a severe case, it is unattractive.
I know that some spas can do a back-cial (a facial for your back). You might check some in your area.
BTW PJ, I happen to like your new pic - brings out your mischevious side!
I dated a guy in college who was very attractive (people thought he was a young McGyver when we'd go out - this was some time ago) but he was self conscious because he had bad facial acne (forgot until now, he also had it on his back). I wasn't anyone special but I was so attrracted to him I never had a second thought about it because I grew to like him for who he was - cliche, if you will - on the inside. He came out of his shyness the more we saw each other, and by the end of the relationship a year later, he was more self assured and had less acne. He wanted to end the relationship so he could date other girls, and as sad as I was at the time, I was happy he felt better about himself. Truly.
I'll bet that rug really tied the room together.
yeah what's up with the new picture? I miss the old one =(
Try Selson Blue or Head and Shoulders as a shower gel. It'll clear that bacne right up! Also - tanning beds work too. (In my case - I find that tan fat looks better than white fat.)
We all have imperfections. It's all in how you deal with them (Like my tan fat for example LOL).
It's been proven that UV light irritates acne, so I don't think you'll want to be baking your zits off your back.
I think there might be something in the Selsun Blue though. . . .
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