Please help me figure out if I'm being played! This guy keeps telling me that I'm amazing, he likes me a lot and feels close to me but also that he wants to have sex with me. We live about 160 miles apart and I only see him if I go to him. Same with texts and phone calls because he's "busy". Should I just move on?
Cary McNeal answered Played's question on
November 5, 2012 12:15 PM
Yes, you're being played. Yes, you should move on.
If he really cared about you, he would show the same interest that you show in him. He would call and text and visit you. You're doing all the work in this one-sided relationship. He just wants sex. If you want something more than that, you are wasting your time with this dude.
Thanks for the question.
Struggled with that one, didn't ya Cary?
Hey, you gotta swing at the ones right over the plate!
Hell yeah, move on! You deserve better. When somebody wants to be with you, they will find the way to be with you instead of using excuses. He wants to have sex with you but he's too busy to text you or call you, what makes you think when you guys have sex things are going to change? They won't. Get out of there ASAP.
Cary, I love your tag "RUN" which applies to about 80% of the dudes these poor girls ask about. Jesus.
He already told you that he wants sex believe him.