You're understandably shocked and confused right now, but it's clear what you should do. First, hack into his Facebook account. Then write this as a status: "I am an abusive boyfriend with a tiny weiner. My girlfriend is not a bitch. In fact, it is I who is the bitch. [Insert your name here] is a queen and I don't deserve her."
Seriously though, you need to leave him. This is textbook abusive behavior with a modern-day social networking twist. He's making you humiliate yourself in front of your friends and family. This is abusive, borderline sociopathic behavior. Why do you want to be with a guy who treats you this way? A guy who won't let you stand up for yourself? First, you need to dump him. Then, you should ask yourself why dumping him wasn't your first move. Are you attracted to abusive guys? (I'm going to assume this isn't the first time he's done something like this. You don't go from zero to "post on Facebook that you're my bitch." He's probably exhibited abusive behavior in the past.) Are you afraid to leave him? Have you been in this sort of situation with past relationships?
Talk to a friend, parent, relative, therapist, etc. about how you were treated in this relationship. They will help you to see if dating abusive guys is a pattern and to spot the warning signs sooner. No one should treat you this way. You should have been out of the door and out of his life forever the second he pulled the whole "my girlfriend, my bitch" thing. End it now, and talk to someone so the next guy you date doesn't end up also being an abusive psycho.
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Seriously though, you need to leave him. This is textbook abusive behavior with a modern-day social networking twist. He's making you humiliate yourself in front of your friends and family. This is abusive, borderline sociopathic behavior. Why do you want to be with a guy who treats you this way? A guy who won't let you stand up for yourself? First, you need to dump him. Then, you should ask yourself why dumping him wasn't your first move. Are you attracted to abusive guys? (I'm going to assume this isn't the first time he's done something like this. You don't go from zero to "post on Facebook that you're my bitch." He's probably exhibited abusive behavior in the past.) Are you afraid to leave him? Have you been in this sort of situation with past relationships?
Talk to a friend, parent, relative, therapist, etc. about how you were treated in this relationship. They will help you to see if dating abusive guys is a pattern and to spot the warning signs sooner. No one should treat you this way. You should have been out of the door and out of his life forever the second he pulled the whole "my girlfriend, my bitch" thing. End it now, and talk to someone so the next guy you date doesn't end up also being an abusive psycho.
RELATED LINKS
Abuse and Getting Out of Dodge
Struggling With a History of Abuse
What a creep! Noone deserves to be treated like that! :(
The reason you wrote is because you recognize this behavior is not normal. Please leave. Don't tell him where you're going, your phone number, close your facebook, everything. This is only going to get worse. Right now, it's verbal and emotional abuse. It will escalate until you are unable to get away. Please don't let him get away with this. You are worth more than that.
How old is your boyfriend? It sounds like Bieber having a tantrum.
Girl, you deserve better!
What Nick said.
Wow...whether he is an insecure douchebag or has a real narcissistic behavioral pathology, he is toxic, and removing him from your life is the only safe answer.
Good luck.
No offense but what kind of guy is this one you're dating, is he a gangster? Where did you meet him? What are the things you liked about him? Why did you fall for him? He treats you like crap and you don't know what to do? Are you kidding???
You already know what to do and if you don't, let me tell you that you have some serious issues that need to be addressed ASAP.
Uh, huh..just say, "look little big man, you're bossing me around is getting me on my last nerve buh-bye!"
What Nick said! I know love makes us stupid and all, and I know it's hard to leave an abusive lover, but seriously, how low is your self-esteem that you didn't walk out the door the minute he pulled the "My girlfriend, my bitch" line?! And to stay and actually post what he requested?! Run like the wind, and get yourself help!
I was in a relationship like this when I was younger, and he did turn out to be an abusive person. Please why are you even asking the question. Get out! Now! This situation will not change. Any man worth his salt, wants an appreciates a woman who can stand up for herself.
You shouldn't even ask what should you do. A guy who tells you to tell the world you are his bitch? HELL TO THE NO. If anything, he comes after mom and dad. Leave his ungrateful because you deserve so much better. And fb? Let's be mature now.