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Sex has gotten pretty boring for me. I love my boyfriend, and we've been trying new things, but nothing seems to do it for me like it used to. I don't want to say anything to him because he seems quite thrilled with said new things, but gosh. Should I resign myself to "meh"?

No, you shouldn't. But you also need to tell your partner that you aren't really feeling the loving the way you need to. By just doing it to "do it", you are heading towards splitsville. You'll be filling less and less fulfilled and your man won't have any clue what the hell is going on.

You probably really need to figure out what in tarnation is sinking your battleship. Is it him or is something else going on preventing you from truly being sexually happy. These things are important. If you're not happy you might just end up pushing your booski away because we can tell when our women aren't satisfied. If your heart isn't in it, we can tell.

It's also possible that by talking to him, you both may be able to get that fire back. That's what you're missing and want, right? But you do need to be honest with yourself about what the issue is. If it's your man, and you know it, and there's nothing that's going to fix it, don't prolong it. Just speak up about it and decide what you need or want to do.

Wack sex is the worst...for everybody.

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I have had the same problem recently! He used to make me melt, and still does in a psychological way, but sexually, I sometimes have trouble.. :/

But how can I figure out where the problem really lies!?

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Im bord of sex with my boy friend because he stoped doing kinky stuff ..now he just wants to do a lil basic 4 play and have sex and done!..I wont even have sex with him any more and he gits realy pissed when I turn him down ,I havnt gave it up to him for months so he started sleeping in his jeans and t shirts but I stilk love him and I hope he dosnt cheet on me over this I just cant bear to have boring sex any more I miss the kinky stuff like making love in his truck out side our house or waking up to him rubbing me and toys ect. I asked him to do those thgings agin but he never does.

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Sex is amazing for me it always has been, but i feel like my boyfriends is the one getting bored. We switch it up everytime he loves the fces i make but when i look at his i can tell he just isnt into it

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Sex is amazing for me it always has been, but i feel like my boyfriends is the one getting bored. We switch it up everytime he loves the fces i make but when i look at his i can tell he just isnt into it

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