There's not a quota of people you have to sleep with, so why worry about it? If he's the only guy you've met you wanted to sleep with, then he's the only guy you've met you wanted to sleep with. Besides, why fret about what other people might think of what's your personal business? Their opinions don't matter: It's not their body.
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Bit of a weird question, why do you have to be either one?
And why do you think another person will be able to tell you what you should be feeling about a situation that's nothing to do with them?
I swear I don't mean to be rude, but that's kind of like the dynamic around here isn't it? The GuySpeak guys answer questions related to things that have absolutely nothing to do with them... Just saying.
Well yes, fair enough. I kinda meant surely the best person to tell her how to feel is herself.. since she's the one feeling it.
My brain is a bit mushy this week, perhaps it's not the best time to be making comments on here, just ignore me!
No big deal :)
in all fairness all you were doing, Terry, was suggesting the OP to listen to her gut. whether your brain is mushy or not this week, that's really good advice. and for the record, i too thought it was a bit of an odd question. worded strangely if nothing else.
Neither. That's the way it is; he's your first, you're not his. Such thing is not important now, after all you guys are going to get married so you may not be his first but will be his last. And to me that's what matters most, not some silly number.
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I admire that because it shows you have class :) Be proud of that honey there are not many of us left!!
I get what you mean and I appreciate the sentiment, but I think having class and sleeping with more than one person are not mutually exclusive. We don't always need to judge one group in order to validate another!