He dont? What in tarnation?!!!
No, you shouldn’t confront him. What are you gonna do, yell at him and tell him to stop? Good luck with that. You’d have better luck telling a dog not to lick his balls.
Everybody masturbates. Okay, not everybody, but like 99.99887% of everybody. Let the poor guy have his wank if it makes him happy. What’s the big deal? Do you worry that it’s a bad reflection on your sex life? Doubtful. Even people with great sex lives masturbate; people with lousy sex lives just do it more. Do you think it interferes with your sex life? If he’s going at it 17 times a day like a Rhesus monkey, yeah, maybe, but if he’s just having a tug every now and again, it’s harmless. Not only harmless, but perhaps even helpful.
Says WebMD, “Some experts suggest that masturbation can actually improve sexual health and relationships. By exploring your own body through masturbation, you can determine what is erotically pleasing to you and can share this with your partner. Some partners use mutual masturbation to discover techniques for a more satisfying sexual relationship and to add to their mutual intimacy.” See there? You can even do it together and then you won’t have to spy on him.
Your husband is a grown man. A man’s relationship with his hand is primal and sacred, and has been since the dawn of time. You won’t change that by scolding him, so you have two choices: either leave him alone while he and Fistina are doing the butter churn — no confontations, no spying — or, better yet, jump in and lend him a hand. Wrists get tired, you know. Or so I hear.