No, you're not overreacting. Your gut is telling you that you don't want to have anything to do with someone who would do that. If that's how you feel, go with it. Otherwise you'll just resent your friend and it'll be a one-sided relationship where she thinks you condone her behavior while you have lost all trust in her.
So now you have two choices:
1. You cut ties with her completely. This is not the type of person you want to be friends with. If she would do that to her best friend, she'd do it to you. She showed her true colors and now you're done.
2. You tell her you can't be friends with her while she's doing this. It's her life, but you can't be a part of it. Maybe if she stops and fesses up to her best friend that she's sexting her fiancee behind her back, you can be friends with her. But you can't get in the middle of this messed up situation.
Good luck! Let us know how it goes.
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So now you have two choices:
1. You cut ties with her completely. This is not the type of person you want to be friends with. If she would do that to her best friend, she'd do it to you. She showed her true colors and now you're done.
2. You tell her you can't be friends with her while she's doing this. It's her life, but you can't be a part of it. Maybe if she stops and fesses up to her best friend that she's sexting her fiancee behind her back, you can be friends with her. But you can't get in the middle of this messed up situation.
Good luck! Let us know how it goes.
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No first one definetly.....at least for me. If she can do that to her best friend she can do it to anyone. Who knows you might be next. That's how I think and how can you continue to be friends with someone who's not trustworthy? You may want to keep your boyfriend or fiancee away from her, that's for sure.
I don't understand this. So you'd keep your bf, even after he's been sexting some girl? Wouldn't you want to get rid of both?
kamakula - Your comment just confused me...The person who asked the question is saying her best friend is sexting her bestfriend's fiance not her boyfriend. So to answer your question, No I would not stay with my boyfriend if he was sexting my best friend. Yes, I would get rid of both. But she's not saying her best friend is sexting HER boyfriend, rather she's saying her best is sexting her best friend's fiance. My point was that if she has a boyfriend keep this girl away from him. I never said keep the guy. I said don't trust the best friend.
Some signs she'll do it again is she see's nothing wrong with it......and she's sexting...I'm sure it wasn't once and she realized she was hurting someone and being disgusting. This will most likely continue until she gets caught. That's gross.
I agree. That is a HUGE integrity issue. I do not want to associate with people that think it is ok to treat others that way. I have to be able to trust my friends. She is clearly not trustworthy. Bye Bye now.
I might even go so far as to threaten to tell the girl that her boyfriend is sexting someone else if the friend refuses to fess up to it. Regardless of if being your business or not, if somebody's relationship is being jeopardized I think they have the utmost right to know about it.