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should i withold sex from my wife because she doesn't want me?

Nope. Buzz! Survey says "no," Alex. Your wife doesn't want to be with you? Time to man up and get out of this marriage. How is withholding sex from her going to help if she doesn't want you? Then you just have two unhappy, passive aggressive people. Witholding is manipulative and never does any good. Address your issues with each other head on. Go to counseling if you want to make it work or start the move towards ending your marriage so you can both move on.
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In what way does she not want you? Not that I don't agree with Nick, but withholding sex might be a moot point here.

Nice&Sweet

If I understand correctly she's the one witholding sex from you!
As sad as it sounds when your wife/gf stops wanting you that is a major issue that must be addressed immediately. If the marriage is worth saving then go to theraphy, I suppose you've already talked to her about it which is the first thing you should do. If theraphy doesn't work... Then it's time to let go.
Sex isn't everything but it does play a pretty important part in a relationship.
If she's not physically attracted to you then does she consider you her friend, best friend or brother???
Best of luck to you!!!

LilZ

Wait, what? She doesn't want you so you're going to withhold sex from her? But she doesn't want you. So that probably means that she doesn't want to have sex with you anyway. I'd say try counseling if you're interested in attempting to save the marriage. Silly passive aggressive stuff like withholding sex is childish and gets you nowhere.

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