Whoa.
Okay, first of all, there's no such thing as "almost" separated. You either are or you aren't. And even if you are separated, you are still married, so, technically, you cheated on your husband. With a guy who's cheating on his girlfriend. And now you want to rat out your lover to his girlfriend "so she can find someone better"? Yeah, right. Where was that concern for her well-being when you were shagging her boyfriend? No, your motive is purely revenge.
What a complete and utter train wreck you've gotten yourself into, lady. Here's my advice: walk away. No, run away. From her, from him, from all of it. Don't tell anyone anything. It's over. Be done with them. Then fix your marriage or get divorced, but stop cheating, because this is the kind of TruTV hillbilly bullshit that ensues when you decide it's okay to step out on your spouse because you're "almost separated."
Thanks for the question.
Fuck yeah, Cary.
YES!! That was wonderful... :)
Should she tell his girlfriend so she can find someone better? Wow! Yes, that sounds like revenge to me too. What twisted thinking! Spot on answer, Cary.
YIKES!
I gotta say as an a outsider I dunno, I think the other girlfriend should know she's dating a jackass. Not to knock on the asker's sexual health but what if the GUY has something? We all can carry strains of a virus that we don't have but can pass on the someone else. Heck if he's doing one other woman he could be doing more! I would hate to think somebody knew my bf was cheating and no one told me.
Right, like SHE'S on such higher moral ground!