When it comes to dating, women really can be their own worst enemies. Not every dude is a shifty liar. Most people, I find, will tell you exactly what they're thinking. But I have found that there are just as many people who only hear what they want to hear, not what they are actually told.
Have you been hurt before? Had your heart broken? Big deal. That doesn't make you special. It means that getting screwed over is an occupational hazard when it comes to searching for love. Don't let that one dent in your heart ruin any future happiness you might stumble upon. Don't assume the worst in people, because you'll end up betraying yourself.
Here's what that guy meant. Are you ready? He had a great night, and would love to do it again.
You mean he actually meant what he said?! *gasp* Seriously, some women ask the silliest questions haha
Wow! Thanks for saying this RP. Do any of these women just straight out ask the guy what he means? So, many senseless and needless questions.
Reason I asked is due to what my friend said that they think it might go down in flames or he's only in it for one reason which wasn't the vibe I got he seemed really interested in me I guess I should learn to not always listen to what my friends say thank you
If by "one reason" you mean have sex with you again.. which is what I got from your "pretty hot", then I'd say ya. (I could be totally wrong with reading in that you guys had sex, people define " got pretty hot" as different things...maybe it was just making out, idk). But anyway, what guy wouldn't go back for sexy seconds? He probably will. If you're looking for a relationship, you know involving feelings and respect and those sorts of things, then I wouldn't hold my breath. Having sex on a first date just says "Im not into relationships, I just like to have sex with people I just met". Which is totally fine if that's your thing,( if you guys did have sex). It sounds like it might be what he likes too, cause i mean you did it together. If it was good, and you guys meet up and do it again, then I would say you probably have an awesome new f*ck buddy, so congratulations!
Yes we did have sex but it wasn't like it was just some random I've known him for seven years. I was trying to control my urges with him on our first date but it just happened and I gave into him. As it stands today I do really like him but I'm not sure I want to date him. I'm not sure if he's a "player" or not
Ooooooh interesting. All the 'rules" you could say change when you've known the person for a really long time. I always find dating someone I've known for a while kind of strange. Its like, dating is for getting to know someone before chosing a relationship with them right?,... but if you date soemone you know real well, well, you already know them so what the hell are you doing? Lol. By your wording "I gave into him" sounds like he was really pushing for some sex on the first date, which to he sounds like a player to me, based on the surface of things. Good luck with things!