Too right.
I constantly say this, not that anyone ever listens. Too hooked on shallow, irrelevant things like breast size, dress size and shoes to pay attention, usually.
A happy, confident woman is the biggest turn on for guys a woman can do. It is a bundle of subtle things - they way they move, the joy in life they show, the self respect. It shines out like a beacon of sensuality, attracting most men in range.
There is a down side though. There is a class of guys, code named "Violently controlling, evil pricks," who really get off on squashing a woman's confidence. You will attract them too, possibly in great numbers, depending on where you go. Just ignore them. They only have power if you permit it.
So pick wisely. Watch for the guy who is slightly hesitant about coming forward. The guy who is slightly shy of coming on to you, because he thinks he might not be good enough. That is the sort of guy you want.
OMG - THANK YOU! TO the question asker, and to whoever Mystery Man is.
I was this woman, and attracted a bunch of those evil ones, who are *never* afraid to approach you or come on to you.
After they crushed my joy to a golden pulp and drank it like a pina colada, I shrunk until I was practically invisible.
Now I am interested in a guy who I can't be sure likes me because he is so hesitant about saying anything. After reading this, I think I hit the jackpot. :-)
Go for it. You know the signs now, and you'll not make that mistake again.
Thanks, MM. You're a gem. =)
More great advice!!! I speak from experience - very true. Wish someone had warned me about the confidence crushers in my early 20s.
Great advice. You're the man!!!
Well, I am most definitely male, at least.
And you're smart, mysterious and really sexy too!!!!!