So I'm going to ask my Q 1 last time. I have a few little moles, and a few tiny psoriasis spots. Can it be a turnoff for guys? Cause of this, I'm afraid to go to the next base with a guy. Guys find me attractive, but I'm scared that they would considerate it a turnoff..Please pick my question, oh mighty MM, please? :)
Mystery Man answered this question on
January 24, 2011 7:55 AM
There isn't a single heterosexual male in the world that'd notice them, never mind be fussed about them.
Go ahead and steal that base.
Honey, I have stretch marks from pregnancy all over a good portion of my body. I also have a few acne issues on my back. Not to mention plenty of moles and other skin issues.
Guess what. I've been with a total 30 men in varying stages of undress and NOT A SINGLE ONE OF THEM EVER SAID A DAMN THING ABOUT MY BODY OR SKIN. Not a single one.
Take a deep breath and just get naked. If he isn't a complete and total ass he will say nothing. And guess what, if he wants to score a home run, he will say nothing.
This question is a waste of space.
"I'm human and have some common minor physical flaws. OMG that's not a huge turnoff, is it?"
Thanks for answering MM!
And to the above, I understand that you probably think that I'm some stuck up little insecure girl with minor problems. But I'm not. I've been bullied, I had acne before, very large psoriasis spots on my arms, legs, torso (that are now thankfully gone for the most part),, many people called me a freak, I HATED school.
So yes, I think I deserve this space, so maybe it's a low self-esteem question, so what, everyone has the right to ask a question, right? Many dumb questions get answered, are you going to bitch about that too? And in my opinion it's not a waste.
But to Megan & MM ; thank you, I'll keep that in mind, and I'm going to try and get some, haha :)