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So, my bf of (almost) six months says he wants to be with me forever. I love him, and he is by far the GREATEST guy I've ever dated. The thing is, I'm not sure if that's a "normal" thing to say in a five month relationship (I don't have much experience, to be fair). I definitely need a guy's perspective on this.

Not to be all existentialist here or anything, but what exaclty constitutes "normal" when it comes to feelings and emotions anyway?

For some you can realize you love somebody in a week and realize that this is the person of your dreams. For others it may take two years. Me no know. Point is, when you know, you know.

To question whether or not he's genuine seems like the wrong road to take here. Of course, this could all very well depend on how old you are too. If you all are 18-year-old love struck kids then, sure, I'd say he's blowing smoke but the reality is, even then, maybe he's not.

Do his actions indicate he's serious about you? And he didn't propose, he's more just letting you know how he feels. That's not a crime.

So peep game chica, your dude loves you and told you. Take it as it is and just enjoy the ride. There are married people out there who'd love to have that dilemma...but they don't.

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That last line is so true Panama..., & single ones too.

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Honey, I knew within the first hour I wanted to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend. Magically, he felt the same. Six months is nothing. I'd call that normal.

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Now normally, I would say in my whole die-hard-and-romantic sort of way, "go for it and love him and everything will just be great!" but truth be told, that just may not be true. I used to swear by my ex-fiance's promises of forever and true love. But as it says, he's now my ex. Truth be told, he's now my ex, he dumped me, and it was all for the best because I'm pretty sure I'm a lesbian. It was also a love-the-way-you-lie-desperate/abusive-thing after awhile. Now really, I'm not saying freak or dump him, or anything else crazy irrational, just don't just into the deep-end until you're pretty damn sure you're ready to swim.

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