Don't be so rock f*ckingly stupid. What do you think you should do?! OK, that was harsh. A double betrayal like that is shattering, so of course you are not thinking straight.
Boyfriend - he is out, simple. He either loves screwing around or can be seduced at the flash of an ankle. Neither make for good husband material, though it would make for interesting family get togethers and a lucrative Jerry Springer appearance.
Your Mom - well, this one is much trickier. You are going to have to see her from time to time regardless, so you might want to be very careful how you talk about it, or even if you talk about it at all. If she doesn't already suspect you know, drop everything and head for Hollywood, you are one stunningly convincing actress.
How on Earth didn't you grab the nearest lamp and start swinging it? They both need a serious kicking out of your life. Any parent that would do that to their child is nutty. Any man that would do that to his fiance is a dog. Get them both out of your life.
Wow... drop em. Your mom needs to know she screwed up and the guy. He doesn't disearve to ever be in your life again. My mom is really dear to my heart if you and your mom are so i'm really sorry. If yall had a messed up relationship before.. Get the hell out of town and live a life when people you love and who "love" you aren't so stupid.
cut them out of your life.. your mother sounds like a succubus, seriously something out of a fucking nightmare.. that image alone would make me want to claw my own eyes out.
If it becomes too much to bare, I'd say find someone who you can really talk to. A priest even... Shit I'd need Jesus after something like that, and I'm an atheist .
Wow. Just wow. That is some royally fucked up shit. I can only wonder if this actually happened. I mean, I know it does, but come on! What the fuck!!
The first two sentences of MM's response summed up my feelings exactly! I can't even believe this is real, but if it is there is NO WAY you can forgive this douchebag for it. You'll cry, it will hurt like hell for a long time but you will heal eventually so look forward to that day and move on!
Where do you live at? With him? With her? If you are living with either one, MOVE! I don’t care if it’s when they are at work or in the middle of the night. Find a friend that you can stay with, just move away from the both of them. If one or the other has the balls to ask you why, just tell them that, “Three’s a crowd.” Nothing more, nothing less. They deserve nothing more from you. If you have to talk to someone, talk to a friend or therapist. ((ehugs baby girl, ehugs!))
Why should she sneak out then tell them why IF they actually have the stones to ask? She didn't do anything wrong except love two despicable people.
MM does not fucking play.
He proposed to you and had sex with your mom during the vacation?
What the hell is going on? Dump the cheap guy,he is a huge asshole!
Screw your mom!Sorry for being rude.But she is so shameless and do not deserve your respect.I know you can't deny the fact she is your mom,but do you really think you can pretend nothing happen?
I know it's hard to drop everything and start again, especially if you thought you were gonna spend the rest of your life with the guy and had plans for the future. But seriously, it's necessary! And if you stay with him, he's gonna have to see your mom again from time to time.... Awkward? Yes. Will he be tempted to sleep with her again? Who knows.
Personally, I would never be able to forgive that. You're just gonna have to say goodbye to your dreams of a perfect marriage with THIS guy.
Still, at least she knows he likes his Mother in law.
EEWWW!!
(funny, but still eewww)
Well, someone had to make the joke. Resisted for a couple of days!
That is AWFUL. But LOL!
hahaha MM i was just waiting for someone else to say it LOL
YOU SHOULD OF NEVER STAYED QUIET!! YOU SHOULD OF BEAT THEIR NASTY LITTLE ASSES RIGHT THERE!!!! WTF
trololol
You don't know what to do? Really? Are you f*@#king serious?
WTH do you mean "he" doesn't know you walked in? Who gives two shits what he knows? He slept w/ your MOTHER!!!
It doesn't matter when he proposed or even that he proposed. I repeat: He slept w/ your MOTHER! And you caught them. This time.
He slept w/ your MOTHER! Which unless it was some kind of rape also means your MOTHER slept w/ him!!
Stop being so supercalifragilistically stupid, drop the ridiculous notion of trying to approach this w/ some sort of diplomacy (because there is absolutely nothing either of them could ever say that will make it ok in any way shape or form) & confront them BOTH. After he's been disposed of, work on your relationship w/ your mother w/ the majority of the reconciliatory effort for this massive betrayal coming from her.
Yes, that was harsh but now you have "a clue" about what to do.
Wait a minute. Plenty of questions to be answered here.
1. How does your mom look? ( She must be smoking hott )
2. Where were you on vacation? Space?( They should have heard you come in)
3.What do you mean "what do you do"?
4How does your mom look?
Advise. Get some dog poop, prepare both of them a meal using it and watch them go insane. Then let them know you know. Hope this helps.
Wait a minute. Plenty of questions to be answered here.
1. How does your mom look? ( She must be smoking hott )
2. Where were you on vacation? Space?( They should have heard you come in)
3.What do you mean "what do you do"?
4How does your mom look?
Advise. Get some dog poop, prepare both of them a meal using it and watch them go insane. Then let them know you know. Hope this helps.
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My mom slept with my crush. And she knew I had a crush on him. It was just a crush but I still think that's betrayal. Because everytime I like a guy now or I'm seeing a guy.. I will always have this fear that my mom will sleep with him. I know shes my mom and took care of me and everything, but I'm still conflicted in forgiving her. Its hard especially since i live with her. And till this day I really can't. That image is stuck with me. The betrayal hurt real bad.
My mom slept with my crush. And she knew I had a crush on him. It was just a crush but I still think that's betrayal. Because everytime I like a guy now or I'm seeing a guy.. I will always have this fear that my mom will sleep with him. I know shes my mom and took care of me and everything, but I'm still conflicted in forgiving her. Its hard especially since i live with her. And till this day I really can't. That image is stuck with me. The betrayal hurt real bad.
i think my mom is sleeping with my boyfriend. im pregnant too.
is your dad deceased?if not, tell him that you and him were cheated. Then tell your mom that she is a crappy fucking retared asswhole bitchy whore, then tell your fiancé that he is a crappy fucking shit-headed fucked up dick. I woulda done that and also move as far away as I can from thoses asses and get married to a guy who won't cheat on you:]