He's jealous.
That wasn't too hard now, was it.
Sounds like one of those nice guy creeps to me.
Mystery Man
so what does it mean when a guy who is really nice to you suddenly, becomes mean to you after he saw you flirting with another guy??
Mystery Man answered this question on September 27, 2011 12:55 AM
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Highly insecure, and lacking self-confidence too. Controlling too. Be thankful you got a free preview before getting committed.
OORRRR you were playing with his feelings. BY leading him on only to show offf that you can flirt with other guys. Dont deny that, many women do this. You shouldnt be suprise to see him hurt, confused, and slightly jealos when he saw you playing with other guys.
Men do this too, everyone does. But someone usually doesnt become jealos unless theyve invested feelings for you that you have reciprocated.
Good luck.
Hey Melanie, I am curious what made you think she was playing games? I'm not saying you are wrong because people do play games. But wondering if there was something both MM and I may have missed in her question that suggests she had toyed with his feelings.
Speaking from a man's perspective, men too often think if a woman is polite or nice, she must be romantically interested, but that is not always the case. Thus, if she goes and flirts with another man, the first man may feel some kind of betrayal or jealousy over nothing. This is in fact what I think has happened in this situation, based on what I read in the OP's question.
yes, but as much as men look at when i girl is being polite or nice and think she is interested, us, girls do it so many times. girls usually over read into things. i have this guy friend, there was some rumours about me liking him and all of a sudden i thought he was avoiding me. so i told him that i didnt like him(in that way) and he shouldnt avoid me, turns out, he knew nothing of the rumour and didnt even notice he was "avoiding" me. girls just read too much into the situation, which might be whats going on here even. Also him being mean doesnt mean that hes controlling or lacks self-confidence. everyone knows how it feels wen u really like someone and u see them flirting with someone else, you feel sad and confused and they might seem mean to you,but in truth they just are upset and are taking that out on you cause you made them feel this way even if you didnt.
What I am reading here is he likes her, she possibly (or not) has sort of lead him to think she may be into him as well (lets say), and she goes off to flirt with guys in front of this particular guy (im taking hes a young man). Shes doing this for reasons we all do, for an ego boost.
flirting makes us feel good, feminine (for women), and attractive. And off she comes back to this guy and says hi, he obviously sees her differently now. He must be hurt, confused, a little jealos because he likes her a lot and maybe hes rethinking both their previous encounters, reading into everything.
Im guessing he thought he had meant more to her than just another guy. We women feel like this all time, and the guy of our dreams walks away to get anothers girl number. Yeah, Im thinking he read more into her than he should have, but questioner, rethink your motives. were you trying to make him feel jealos? did you wanted him to think you were harder to get? that you could easily get another guy?
And if it bothered you that he was angry, then maybe hey...you liked him too. and his anger confused you or confirmed what you thought, but now hes probably not talking to you anymore.
our actions speak louder than words.
good luck.
Thanks! That was insightful. I think flirting does the same for most men, doing and receiving feels good. I have been told by some women that they (the particular woman, not women in general) flirt a lot, but doesn't always mean they're into the guy. So, maybe she did flirt with him, and he did think they had something started. Your response is equally plausible.
I thought it amusing how each of us blamed our own gender.
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