That's so weird that I honestly have no clue what the hell you're even talking about. But it's Friday (Friday, Friday...oooooooooooh). So let's delve deeper, shall we?
I love delving.
When you say he wants you to be big spoon, is that a superhero, like THE BIG SPOON! He wants you to pick up everything and not let anything sliver through like if you were say, THE BIG FORK!
Or does he just like big spooning...which, I also don't know what that would mean. I know what spooning is, but big spooning? Unless...is he 6-foot, 7-foot, 8-foot PUNCH? Then perhaps you could get your big spoon on.
Or, maybe it's some sort of new age term for drug use. Which drug? Beats me. Except it doesn't...it spoons me. Of course, old school heron junkies know about big spoons. All table, no tea.
So to answer your question: is it weird that he wants you to big spoon?
My final answer is Tuesday.
Thank you and good night.
"Dear Abby, I brought a big spoon to bed one day when my boyfriend told me he wanted me to big spoon. He got up and said I should have brought a big fork too then left. Did I do something wrong?"
She'd be better off as a spork. Kinky.
Oo! Oo! I know this one! Pick Me! Okay when you spoon with someone the little spoon is the front person and the big spoon is curled up around you.
And I don't think it's weird to be the big spoon, I think he just wants to be held. awww cute!
I like this answer :) And no it isn't wierd. My bf and I seem to trade off... sometimes he spoons me and sometimes I spoon him, everyone likes to be held.
Yes, I like this answer too because that's what I was thinking. My boyfriend and I switch off as well. And while I enjoy sleeping like that, I have to say I hate the term. Which is why I haven't mentioned it once. And will not.
Ah, big spoon and little spoon. My boyfriend prefers to be the big spoon, but loves when I'm big spoon when we're curling up to sleep, says he loves how comfy it is :)
I just always want to be the little one!!
awww, i like to be the big spoon sometimes. i think it let's him know i'm holding on to this love and i'm here for him without having to say it out loud ...well at least that's what it signifies in my head. he may just be mad that i'm on his side if the bed again letting space waste on the other side
There is nothing wrong with him wanting you to be the big spoon from time to time. My girlfriend and I wind up in that position sometimes when I sleep over there. Usually I'm the big spoon, but every once in a while I just need to roll over on to the other side for comfort's sake, and when that happens she has to be the big spoon since she always sleeps on one specific side of the bed. Simple as that.
Aww my Bf likes to be the little spoon sometimes, he'll literally wriggle into the space infront of me if he wants to be held. but he's usually the big spoon
Aww my Bf likes to be the little spoon sometimes, he'll literally wriggle into the space infront of me if he wants to be held. but he's usually the big spoon
I had a bf who would never ever ever be the big spoon, it's one of the main reasons I dumped him, cause his out right refusal, he said my hair was too longm made me feel unloved, and sometimes you need to be held
I am very short and usually end up dating super-tall guys, and so me being big spoon is very hard, and I usually just joke about it. But its nice when I can be big spoon.
I think it's weird if a guy frequently wants to be little spoon, but since I love snuggling in whatever direction I'd also be a bit put off if he totally refused to be little spoon. Also, it depends how tall and heavy the guy is - my last bf was 4 inches taller and at least 100lbs. heavier, so being the big spoon to him was just awkward. We did kind of switch off when we slept though, and he liked it that way. Two previous partners have had issues sleeping while sharing a bed, period, which is far more disconcerting than anything spoon-related. My current fwb loves to be big spoon but isn't a fan of little spoon, which is ok because he's really tall but otherwise would probably bother me a bit.
i like being the big spoon occasionally :)
It's really funny when the guy lets you be big spoon. Shows he's easygoing.
I just want to be held :(
Not weird at all. My bf cuddles me a lot, but when it's time to fall asleep, he prefers to be held. I think it's not only very cute, but a comfortable sleeping position as well. I like it when he gets drowsy and asks me in his sleepy voice, "Can you hold me please?" I just melt. It's nice to have a guy who's secure with himself and his masculinity to show a softer side.
I'm a guy and I like it when my man is the big spoon makes me feel safe....x