If you tell him you're preferring plastic to wood, and he wants to do absolutely nothing to rectify the situation, you're probably done.
If he's being selfish in bed, and he is, that's eventually going to spill over into the rest of the relationship. One way or the other, this will migrate. Extra demerits for trying to talk about the situation and he basically doesn't change it.
Maybe this is salvageable, but honestly, I doubt it. Good luck, either way.
1 year and you got problems already. Time to leave girl. Time to leave.
Pulled. - MM
I'm not the OP, but what does that have to do with anything?
sounds like he's trying to imply that if she's overweight, she doesn't deserve better because (in his mind) she's undesirable.
only stupid people would imply that. the author certainly didn't.
Leave the guy already! You're wasting your life away by even bother staying. You're not getting anything from this relationship, he's not getting anything - and he clearly don't got the balls to leave on his own. So do yourself and him a favor and breakup.
What you have on your hands is a manchild with an overdeveloped sense of entitlement. Ditch 'em. A real man will want to try to make sure that you're satisfied, is smart enough to understand that it's about give and take, and realist enough to know that even though he may not always be able to get you there he had damn well better try his best.