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The guy im seeing put his sex life on a pedestal, bragged how good he was, said he was huge. We have sex, he sucks and he is def not huge. He took my virginity so technically i dont "know" anything about sex, but Im highly sexual and know hes not gonna cut it for me. How does the "inexperienced" one deal with this?

Guys lie about sex. All the time. Being inexperienced, you probably didn't know that, or realise just how bad it is. Always assume that a guy who overtalks his skill is full of crap. Guys who are confident in bed rarely feel the need to discuss it.

If he doesn't do it for you, get rid of him.

I did comment on another question that it is usually about the 4th to 10th time before a n00b gets the hang of it and actually has fun, but that can be improved.

Would you get a non-driver to teach you to drive? A guy that can't add 2+2 without a calculator to teach you math? Why on Earth would you treat learning your body and sexuality any different? Ignore the guys that boast about their skills. Find a guy who doesn't need to. Because he actually knows what he is doing.

And remember - the louder the talk, the less impressive the skills.

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Or... don't dump him unless you're a whore who ONLY cares about sex. Just tell him to stfu and stop bragging instead.

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Why does she have to be a whore if she ONLY wants sex? I'm tired of the words whore and slut being thrown around. If you enjoy sex more power to you. You're not a whore, you're HUMAN.

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You must have been the one with the tiny penis and unimpressive in bed. Sheesh

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Or... don't dump him unless you're a whore who ONLY cares about sex. Just tell him to stfu and stop bragging instead.

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Or... don't dump him unless you're a whore who ONLY cares about sex. Just tell him to stfu and stop bragging instead.

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Or... don't dump him unless you're a whore who ONLY cares about sex. Just tell him to stfu and stop bragging instead.

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Dunp him and move on because he will be bragging about how he took your virginity. You are not a whore to move on. Mystery Man is right about this one. If a man is doing it right, you will feel orgasams from the begining to the end. To bad he was a loser in that department. Don't hurt his feelings. Just move on. And the less a man brags the better he is...

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Dunp him and move on because he will be bragging about how he took your virginity. You are not a whore to move on. Mystery Man is right about this one. If a man is doing it right, you will feel orgasams from the begining to the end. To bad he was a loser in that department. Don't hurt his feelings. Just move on. And the less a man brags the better he is...

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Dunp him and move on because he will be bragging about how he took your virginity. You are not a whore to move on. Mystery Man is right about this one. If a man is doing it right, you will feel orgasams from the begining to the end. To bad he was a loser in that department. Don't hurt his feelings. Just move on. And the less a man brags the better he is...

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Sounds like the bragging isn't the problem, the bad sex is. Do you know why people date more than one person in their lives, or why people break up? It's because not everybody is right for you. If you are not enjoying yourself in bed with him, it's time to move on, and keep moving until you find someone worthwhile. You owe yourself that much.

Mystery Man

Nomi and Been There - spot on.

Phil - this is not about you and your tiny penis. Or is it?

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Hi, for what it's worth, I have found in life that the more a man brags about "what a man he is" there is usually an underlying problem. I'm 55 and was married for 24 years. Now, divorced for the last 10, I have encountered this problem with the man I am now trying to get over.. I never threw it in his face because I loved so many other things about him. I can tell you one thing though for sure, sex with him was almost a chore. He was clueless? Or lazy? Or just felt that he was there to be serviced? Who knows?
He now has 5 online profiles and you would think he is the lover of all lovers? Some of the things he writes blow my mind? I can tell you that he talks a big talk and I believe it's because he was short and small in high school years ago and got bullied alot. Seems his size still makes him feel he has to tell everyone what a real man he is???
This makes me a little sad for him. What does your height have to do with intimacy? Also, if you're really a good lover, you don't need to broadcast it. Even sadder? I cannot remember him every rocking my world and yet I was willing to love him anyway!
Bella :o)

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