He said it and ran? He means it. He's embarassed, cause he didn't mean to say it just yet. Too early and it can creep a gal right out of a relationship. Plus, he has given away an advantage. You know how he feels, he doesn't know how you feel. That is really not good for a guy.
You say he is your new guy. How long have you been together? More importantly, how long have you known each other? If you have known each other a while before starting to see each other, it's not creepy. If you haven't, well love at first sight happens from time to time.
So I keep getting told.
PS, for the commenters - Yes, technically it should be Freudian, but I am not correcting it cause the guy was a total fraud.
Haha! "Fraudian !" Great response MM!
We haven’t known each other all that long; both of us have been married/divorced so we have been around the block. He’s a great guy, always worry if I’m ok & if I need anything. He will come over just to see me & doesn’t chase me into the bedroom everytime. He said yesterday that it is important that I know he isn’t coming over just for the sex. WOW!
Sounds like you got lucky!
You know..., I think I am very lucky.
You’re a guy, what do you suggest I do? It didn’t creep me out, but I do tend to take my time where my heart is concerned though. I definitely see myself going where he probably is.
(As a side note, I noticed that he uses “we” a lot. We need to shop around for this or we need to go look into that for you.)
You do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Nothing else.
You both been around the block, he'll accept your pace. OK, he'll be tapping his feet and looking at his watch, but still ...
Your life. Your choice on who, how and when you pass out the keys to your heart and/or chastity belt.
And, you know?
Guys are usually OK with that.
He calls his daughter "lesbian"? A bit unusual, but I'm not judging...
If you don't love him, or aren't sure yet, don't say it. You don't owe him the L word back. But if you do love him- and you really do, you're really sure- then there's no reason you shouldn't tell him.
If you don't know if you love him then you don't. If you have to convince yourself that you love him, then you don't. I think we only know that we love when we love despite ourselves.
Lesbian? That’s way funny! I told him that two people can set out on road trips heading to the same place. One is going to get there first, the other one will eventual. I am more like the second person. I take the slow scenic route & enjoy the journey along the way. As long as we were both heading in the same direction, there shouldn’t be any worries. I also said that he should never feel uncomfortable to say anything to me, communication is key to any relationship. I think that helped. He left for a 2 day business trip yesterday. I’m finding myself already missing him. hum….
I HAVE MET THIS GUY WHO SAYS HES ROMANTIC AND ALL HE TALKS ABOUT IS HOW HE LOVES TO ROMANCE A LADY AND WHEN I WAS WITH HIM ALL HE WANTED TO DO WAS ROMANCE ME AND OF COURSE I PULLED AWAY LATER HE CALLED AND SAID THAT I WAS BEING DIFFICULT AND THAT HE COULD REALLY LOVE ME IF I WASNT SO DIFFICULT I TOLD HIM I KNOW WHERE HIS ROMANCING WAS LEADING AND HE SAID NO THAT WASNT IT AT ALL. WHAT DO YOU THINK IM RIGHT HUH
Player.
Avoid.
Way to cockblock a dude , BRO!
Well said. I used to shoot for a living, and I was always a bit taken aback when a shot like you speak of was unappreciated, yet a totally uncreative sunset would get all kinds of "oohs" and "aahs", almost solely because it had impressive colors.Whats my name?