Oh, he likes you. He definitely likes you. This is the classic mating ritual of man. It goes back to the playground days when boys would pull the pigtails of the girls they liked. He also understands that a lot of women hate a guy who is too nice or sweet to them, which is why the nice guy usually gets nowhere in the dating world.
Women seem to want an a-hole and a nice guy all mixed into one. Your guy is simply trying to mix the two, thus the mixed messages. If you give him a little attention you will find out his true intentions--that is that he likes you.
Boys drool,Girls rule!!!!
What does it matter if he likes you if he's an asshole? Are you seriously going to pursue a relationship with someone you don't like just because you think he may like you? Or do you like him and are just trying to interpret any possible signals, even negative ones, into meaning something more than he probably means?
Girls need to stop thinking that because a guy stares at you it means he's full of love and longing! That's not what brought the money in for the old sideshows at the circus!
Nicely said!
Its...just a question.
Well he's not staring at her for her health.
I like a guy to be a bit of an asshole. It's a challenge. When they are too nice I just walk all over them. Not good.
exactly, thank you .
Agreed! I'm too dominant of a person to have a push over.
us women love a challenge!
HAHAHHA seriously Megan you're so funny!
There are different kinds of women and different kinds of men. My sister likes the nice guy/bad guy mixed into one box. Deep down the guy is NOT a jerk, however, he might act like a mini one by teasing and so forth. Actually I have an acquaintance like this. He sort of makes fun of the girl he is dating, but that's what gives them the spark. She can be a bit sassy too.
As for me, I am more of the reserved, go for the nice guy type. If I see a guy who is too much into teasing/being an ..... then I steer clear of him. I figure I am not his type, although teasing can be fun, it's just, I'm not much of a game player. So I like the more introverted nerdy types, and with them I feel comfortable being myself.
So, to each, her own :-)
(oh, and on the nice guy topic, I know a lot of guys who think they are nice guys, but actually, no, they aren't. They just think since they aren't playing the field that makes them nice... oh man, how I want to slap them! Nerdy does not automatically = nice! big pet peeve of mine hehehe)
I get exactly what Mystery Man is saying.
I'm a very aggressive woman by nature and I don't want a guy who will let me do whatever I want. I want to be equal to him and that means he needs to keep me on my toes just like I keep him on his.
Ive been in the same situation and the guy is definitely feeling you. It's what he does when no one is watching that tells you how he feels. Guys have images to maintain just like girls do. and for any girl who disagrees you are a hypocrite if you have ever put on makeup, gotten dressed up, or checked your reflection in the mirror to make sure you looked good during a bathroom break. We all have to maintain some guise to the outside world and if that is this guys image whose to judge him for it but he def has a thing for you.