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This guy asked me out. Turns out he's 32, divorced, and has 2 kids. He doesn't seem like a creep and seems genuinely nice...but I'm in my early 20's and hesitant. Why would a 30-something guy want to date a 22 year old anyway?

Because he thinks you're hot.

Look, if you're hesitant, don't do it. I'm sure you're right, that he's a nice guy, but he's got kids and a divorce, and that's a lot of baggage for anybody to help someone carry no matter how nice they are. If you're not interested, tell him you're flattered, but that's as far as it goes.

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I'm 22 and my ex was a divorced 32 year old with 2 girls. we started dating when i was 20 and he was 30. he was a really great guy, we're still friends and have tons in common we're hanging out tomorrow infact. sometimes age isn't as big of an issue ;p.

however if your childless, and still care free, then yeah that's a lot to take on with the kids and divorce.

me and my ex both had kids, he was in uni, worked, etc. it was a bit too much for the two of us. the age wasn't an issue, just the time.

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