This guy sounds like either a teenager, a jackass or both. You want to go out on a date and he just refuses to take you out on one. Why is that? What reason could he possibly have to not take you out and treat you like a lady?
If this is the way he’s acting now, when he’s trying to impress you, imagine what it will be like in three months, or six months, or two years. Will he stop getting out of bed, or putting on pants?
My advice is to find someone that treats you right. There are plenty of men out there that will be more than happy to put on a nice shirt and take you out properly. Go get one, and leave this man to wallow in apathetic non-romance.