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This guy I knew in high school recently friended me on facebook. I kinda had a crush on him back then and now we're both single. Would it be creepy to start flirting with him via facebook?

I doubt it. Most guys will take attention from a girl in any form, whether it be online, tied around bricks hurled through windows, or as a series of stabbing attempts. If you understand comedic progression, you'll note that online was the least offensive of the series. We're off to a good start!

I'd say it's even BETTER to flirt in person, but if you haven't hung out since High School and there's no immediate way for you to get both he and you in the same place, then a poke is actually less creepy. Showing up in person seems a little presumptive.

If you want to be extra-cautious, you could always invite him to a friendly game of Mafia Vampires or whatever. Just make sure you parley the initial discussion into a real-world meeting pretty quickly. Ending up in virtual limbo both is easy and incredibly annoying.

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We dont find that stuff creepy, you know what we definitely dont find creepy? You asking to hang out with us in the REAL world.

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Invite him to mafia vampire games on facebook? What are you 5? Ask to hang out with him see how he reacts and if you want throw in a few compliments on his looks, go for it, if he feels you hell respond accordingly. Feel him out, inviting him to a cautious vampire app whatever isnt the fastest way to knowing the truth.

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Well, This guy I knew in high school recently friended me on facebook too. So I start talking to him so we got alone, talking about old days. Special school day, he told me about how he was a bad kids in school. He don’t saw up in school or come home late even was a school night. Then he ask me if I was bad girl, I told him that I was not a bad girl special school night but if I do go out have to be near home so I can come home before 8pm. But only thing that I never told him that I have a crush on him because I told him that I was to old for him, so I set him up with someone because then I have a boyfriend. I was crazy not telling him then he high school still now I still not tell him about it how I feel. Because he just got out from marriage, me it as been 11 yrs. We have been talking about two month now but only once a week. He always away from traps and he come home to see his kids on the weekend. His youngest daughter only 13yrs old. I understand that he have to spend time with his kid. He told me that he wants to be a friend with me but he keeps asking me about the benefit. I told him that I have friends but there is no benefit from them. I just hang out as a friend. I do like this guy but I am not ready for him. I keep tell him that I want to be friend for now but every time I see him he keep asking me that question again about that benefit. So should I do about it…..?

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