Is this OK? Is this OK? No, it's not ok. It's awesome. Do you know how many ladies lay there still like a mime in Times Square during sexual activity?
Yes, you are a bit of an exception. I will give you that, but don't think for one minute it's a negative. Being able to slam-dunk isn't "normal," but it's a good thing. Many a man would do anything to have their lady spasm and tremor from sexual release. Most guys would give their left arm (and have) for a woman to rattle even once or emit a low decibel hum to at least inform them that they're in fact not only alive, but having a decent time in bed.
You say you need to be "pinned down" during these eventful orgasms -- well hot dog! If your flailing doesn't result in you cutting your limbs on near by furniture, then I say - cool.
Your boyfriend, though consistently stunned, probably feels like a champ in the sack. If you want to ask him if it's normal for him, go ahead. He'll say "no" if he's truthful, or, "yes" if he wants to show off.
Regardless, the bottom line is this: You rock the electric slide while many other women are invisible on the dance floor. Enjoy the theatrical release, and remember many guys need a stethoscope or sworn testimony to know their lady has orgasmed. So go on with your bad self and get down.
Write a comment...My man loves it when I orgasm so much that it makes my entire body tremble and shake. When this happens he is watching in awe as he gave me the ultimate orgasm a guy can give a women. An orgasm that all I am capable in doing is twitch, shake,and tremble. If that isn't enough for him he intensifies it by blowing on me and or gently touching me with his fingers to have it build up where I'm back to shaking and trembling all over again!!
Most men try their damnest to even get the woman they are with to that intensifying orgasm that takes control of their womans body! Best feeling ever to have it be felt from your toes and to where your teeth feel like they are numb!! All I can say to my man after he allows me to calm down is "Hi!" and smile at him as he's looking back at me with the biggest grin on his face! Along with the oh yeah I did good I'm the man I got my woman to flail in orgasm heaven!! Lol so enjoy those hardcore orgasms because the more you enjoy them the more you will allow your body to have them!!
"You're the exception..." "Most guys would give their left arm..."
Maybe this is just my experience (plus the collective experience of all my friends) but I don't know a single woman who would just lie there and have sex done to her :) I have a very open social group, who talk about this sort of thing because individually, I know we'd hate to feel like the asker does, not sure about something and wondering if it's "normal".
Side note: Did talking to your friends about this not feel comfortable for some reason?
Anyway, from what I know about many different kinds of female orgasm, yours doesn't sound like the exception in the slightest. I really wouldn't worry! Without wanting to insult the Funny Guy (because truth gets lost in humour sometimes) this answer makes it sound like it's normal to lie there nice and quiet and wait for an orgasm, but if the sex is good, or even alright, then there will be a range of physical signs. Your body is normal :)
And to any women that really aren't making a peep when sex is happening, then wondering why they're not having good orgasms, it might be an idea to get involved with the sex you're having. (Of course, it could be because your partner is terrible, but communication is the key there) We're a very tactile species: if you're having troubles getting to that good O, try taking a break and just kissing or running your hands over each other for a bit.
Omg..I can't believe you said "hot dog!" ahhh just had a flashback of someONE who says that ALL the time...the moment is over, nd this has now become a completely irrelevant comment...I enjoy reading your posts funny guy...they r very expressive and makes me feel like I'm listening to someone talk rather than reading :)
It is totally normal. I twitch for like.10 minutes after orgasmung
Great feeling