No. There aren't. And any way that you might try would be manipulative and potentially evil and could cause you severe bad karma later on in life.
Plus, why would you want an ex to crawl back to you? He broke up with you or something and now you want him to realize he messed up and beg you to take him back? Fat chance. We're dudes. We keep it moving. Sure, we reminisce at times about the love we lost, but unless he really didn't want to break up in the first place he's not coming back. He'll go sulk in some other chick's Venus fly trap.
I do have to say, the fact that you want him to beg you to get back into his life seems problematic. Grow up. I know you feel wronged and want him to have to worry about whether or not you want him back, but who does stuff like that nowadays. Well, probably a lot of people actually.
Point is, if you want dude back, make a phone call. Don't try to manipulate him back into your life. If you do, chances are he won't last long there anyway.
Please don't make that phone call lol( that is beyond pathetic, now who's crawling back to who here?) . For the love of christ, why do you want someone like that? They fucked up, its over(or maybe you fucked up, once again its over). Been there , done that got the tee shirt... shit...
Sometimes it's not so easy. Love is complicated, and when its taken away from you your whole world comes crashing down around you.. I loved my ex very much and when he told me he couldn't marry me, I was so lost that I actually spent money on those silly "Get Your Ex Back" guides you find all over the web.. The advice was absolutely awful but I hung on every word, blinded by my hope. I'm embarrassed that I believed it for even a second. But that's desperation for you.. Hang in there Desperate.
Actually, guys do come crawling back, but never for good reasons. Case in point: I've had this happen with two guys. One ex turned out to be bouncing back and forth between me and some other chick, most likely feeding her the same lines he fed me to get me back.
The other guy kept coming back every few months claiming mental/emotional instability as his excuse for not locking me down. It went on for over a year.
My point is, guys don't put their manliness and pride at stake by crawling back to you unless they're up to no good. If you're just trying to get back at this guy, what you're not taking into account is that he'll probably end up talking you into getting back with him, only to screw you over once more. Guys can be realll convincing when they're desperate and in need of some sex.
The best revenge is to go on and be happy without him! As soon as you realize that, you will be fine. Time heals all wounds. And whatever you do, do not call him...
true dat one!
Stay classy, move on. That's the best revenge.
Hooho. I've dealt with this in a big way. I even called the guy, twice! I was an emotional wreck, and I even begged the guy to come back to me. Weird part is, after he left me, I got into all his music tastes and hobbies. I probably know more than him now. Sad, yes, but very benefical in the long term sense. Now, amazingly I've moved on, how you may ask? Well, I got more "self involved." I bought more for my drum set, played more, met different people, got a new boyfriend, read a lot, and learned a lot. Anything to get my mind off of the guy. That's basically the key...TIME. It's f*cking hard, but all time can do is move forward. ;)
Exactly. Like go take a class - something out of the ordinary for you that you have always wanted to do to keep life interesting. Try a new sport that will exhaust you. Do something worthwhile and volunteer to help someone who needs it. Get out there and meet new people while you are doing different things. And it definitely helps to read - anything and everything - to gain perspective, get new ideas and keep learning...
Why would you want someone crawling back to you? That's creepy and utterly a precursor for a very unhealthy relationship.
that doesn't sound like a BFF answer. where's the hug?!
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Agree with most of the comments. DON'T be that girl. Cliche as it is, going cold turkey without any contact is the best method, and time will heal the wound, and when it does, suddenly you will realise you didn't need to be treated like that, and that person was not good for you. You will almost breathe a sigh of relief. Have a good circle of female friends to bitch and moan and giggle about men with, and do girly things with. Take up a hobby and do the things that interest you most. Healthy and real love doesn't give you grief. For now, you need time to do some soul searching.