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We were at the mall and my boyfriend went to order food from Arby's and didn't even offer me anything. Then he just sat there and ate it in front of me.

Dump him. First he's making you watch him scarf down a Big Beef and Cheddar, then he's forgetting your birthday and "liking" those bikini photos your friend posted on Facebook. It's one thing to be absent-minded and thoughtless and go, "Oh, did you want something?" after the fact. He just sat there and made you watch him eat. That sounds like he purposely wasn't thinking about you; like he was going out of his way to not even ask if you wanted anything.

Was he mad at you? Seems like he was trying to make a statement.This is the sort of thing a guy does when he wants to break-up but isn't man enough to do it. He acts like a jerk for a while so you'll get the hint and initiate the break-up. Then he gets to be all, "What's your problem?" and complain to his friends that you were too demanding and broke up with him. It's classic jerk behavior.

Even if he doesn't want to break-up, his actions are a huge sign that he's taking you for granted. It may seem small, but it's the little things that count in lasting, long-term relationships.

Arby's is kind of gross anyway. It's like tequila-- I might enjoy it at the time, but I'm going to hate myself in the morning. I like a Loaded Potato Bite as much as the next guy, but you're better off. Find a guy who will take you somewhere a little more upscale. Like, say, Panera Bread. Oh, Panera Bread. Why must you be so tasty?  
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Cary McNeal

Arby's? He probably didn't want you puking on him.

Melissa

Great answer, Nick!

No

Panera FTW.

jude

You do know that they use glue in that meat, right?

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Definitely dump him. You deserve better!

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Where's the question? I'll help you...
Q. What should I do?
A. Go order a thing of curly fries. It should hold you over.
Q. Why did he do this?
A. 2 part answer: 1. He's hungry and didn't want to share. 2. He thinks you're a biggun and doesn't want to be seen in public with you if you gain another 5 or 10 lbs.

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:You sound like a douche, Ed. Are you sure you're not the asswipe boyfriend in question?

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