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What do guys want after they've had sex with a girl?

Probably more sex. Or a sandwich. Definitely a short cuddle, and a long snooze. Personally, I like to watch Mad Men or 30 Rock on the ol' DVR.

Besides those trifles, what men want most after sex is not to have to worry about what they want next. Sex is an act. It can be a teeth shaking, vulnerable union between two souls or a disposable physical release. It's not a transaction. It's not part of an equation. It is what it is, and it's best not to ponder what it is we want. You have no control over it, anyway. Focus on what you want, and if it's not the same thing as what he wants, bail.

Some guys just want to crank it, get laid, and move on. Some guys want something more -- more sex, more hanging out, more of a commitment. And believe it or not, in my experience, these are choices that are open to women as well. I've slept with women that just wanted to get their rocks off, and politely told me so when I'd call them up to see if they wanted to go on a date. I've slept with women that think we're in a full-blown relationship the morning after.

When two consenting adults chose to get nekkid, and dirty, there should be no expectation of anything. I find that most men, and women, want a little space to figure out what they want. The issue then is how they communicate that want. Which is a whole other question.

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Great -and honest- insight.

Molly

Ha! Another reason sites like these will always be popular. No answer that you (or any other man) can give to this answer will ever be adequate/satisfactory for my gender.

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Sleep, food, or the remote...easy

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Sleep, Food or the remote...easy

Dirtmonkey

How is that not satisfying? It's good to know, because that's the way I feel about it. No need to go gettin' all uptight.

K

I started dating this guy about 6 months ago. We have a wonderful chemistry when we are together. We both lead busy lives so sex is like once a month ;-(. He is not a caller and is terrible at returning calls. When I call he is excited and even more so when we are together. The phone call thing is starting to get to me. Are most men like this or should I be reading more into it?

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brilliantly put sir.

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If the sex was good, a nice big sandwich and then more sex. If the sex was bad, a sandwich and then submissiveness so that we can teach you how to work it.

That's about it.

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