He is, with all due respect, talking out of his posterior. There is no such thing as a guy who cannot be seduced. OK, maybe 8 in all the legends of the major cultures, ever.
Try harder. If you want to play his ego boosting game.
No, I don't like guys like that. Realist is not what he thinks it means. It is a snap judgement, and I may be wrong (yeah right, as if) but you are being reverse played.
What could be more real than your girlfriend standing naked in front of you and wanting you. That is pretty darn real.
I think he might be a bit goofy taking a stand like that. Maybe he doesn't really know what a realist is and is actually a bit of an idealist.
Men say they don't want it but their bodies disagree with them.
The truth is No guys can't be seduced.
You pat him on the head and tell him he's cute when he tries to use big words. Let him know if that was true, his manhood would be smaller than his brain and you wouldn't have a reason to date him.
reverse played? what does that mean, like, he is saying that to try and get her to seduce him? it all does sound a little like game playing to me too. "i'm a realist so i can't be seduced" wtf IS that?!? it sure as hell ain't real that's for sure. sorry for cursing but geezus louweezus that aggravates me. all these people stuck in relationships going to nowhere all the while complaining they hate game playing, but do it anyway. i always say, there's nothing sexier than a real man, and honey, i think you need to keep looking for a real man that wants you to seduce the hell out of him.
Umm...at risk of sounding like an idiot, I have NO idea what any of you are talking about. Not the asker, not MM, not the comments. How is he your boyfriend if you can't seduce him? What does being a realist have to do with any of it? I just...someone's gonna have to help me out, here. 0_o
Thank you! I'm at a loss, too.
From my experience with guys that have said the same thing to me, he's just asking for sex, and playing hard to get at the same time. He doesn't want to seem too vulnerable, or easy, and wants you to prove to him that you're Wonder Woman in the bedroom. The fact that he's saying he can't be seduced probably means that he's already completely captivated you. If I were you, I would play along by nonchalantly doing little things that turn him on. When he can't resist your temptation, remind him that he said he couldn't be seduced. If he's a true realist, reality will show that he indeed was allured by you. However, if you don't want to put up with his conceitedness, then silent treatment might work. Don't give the dog a bone, so to speak. If he truly wants you, he wont want to go a day without you. Being with guys like this is a lot of work, and often he wont give you near as much effort to woo you, as you put in. Although, if he is the one you want to be with, then I commend your attempts to understand him.
that is so messed up it almost doesn't make sense, and yet it does. kind of along the lines of what MM said, and i still don't think it's realist. using 5 dollar words to get a by for manipulating your woman into boosting your ego is still game playing.