Your crude and courageous question deserves an answer. Surely you are writing this, while in some emotional duress over either having or thinking you have a very large vagina. Maybe you are comparing yourself to other girls in your sorority during a Vagina Tea Party? Maybe a boyfriend of yours made a remark about your cavernous vagina and its got you down.
As we all know the human vagina (band name, anyone?) is an elastic muscular canal that extends from the cervixÂ to the vulva. Guys often complain that it’s “too big” when during sex they feel a lack of friction, or tightness. Rather than blaming it on the size of their wang, they blame the vagina. “Ooh, this glove is too lose?” Maybe your finger is too thin, Frankie. Big vaginas or big penisi are only issues in relation to their sexual counterparts.
This speaks to another issue. If we as a society believe in soul mates. should we also believe in genital soul mates? Is there a perfect penis and vagina out there for us all? A genitalia yin to our yang that would make sex 100% perfect. What’s worse, are we dating or married to our soul mates while our genital soul mate might be that idiot you always see on the train, or someone living on another continent?
But, back to your actual question. Guys want a vagina to fit snugly around their penis. They like fingering a woman and feeling like they are making some head way i.e. she is enjoying herself. Some women with large vaginas need more than a finger, they need, three fingers, a fist or toys that may at first seem better suited for industrial plumbing. Remember our bodies are all assembled differently. If you have an above average vaginal canal or floppy labia so be it. You may want to find a man with an extra large wang to satisfy you or find a partner that loves lapping up large labia. Don’t be down on yourself and you will certainly find someone who will.
We all want our sex life to have a Cinderella ending; but it’s not always that simple. We find ourselves the owners of large feet, tiny slippers, big shoelaces or stubby heels. Â We match up the way we do, get creative, and find clever ways to get our collective foot loose. At the end of the day big and small vaginas, thin and large wangs alike make their way to the ball and find a way to dance.