Avoid him at all costs? Or her? Hell, it doesn't matter if its him or her...just avoid them.
Perhaps pick up a hobby as a form of distraction. Learn how to play the sitar. I hear that's one of those instruments that is a conversation starter no matter where you go. See you get to play an instrument AND meet new people. I feel the same way about an oboe. Like, who plays that? But if you do, you can have other chipper conversations about oboe-playing.
By the way, I ran this by our legal department and you're in the clear in case anything does go down since I don't know your name, Anonymous. But, murder is wrong. Just thought I should be responsible to mention that in case you weren't fully aware.
How about getting a new person to care about and not want to murder.
Parfaits! You should eat parfaits. Those don't make anybody want to murder anybody.
The basic point here is...find something else to be happy about because murderous thoughts, though great fodder for CSI episodes, probably aren't going to make that past relationship any better.
Don't kill nobody.
The whole anger thing...just...sucks
I started paintball with some guy friends after my ex, worked wonders.
If all you want to see is your ex swallowed by a carnivorous hole in the ground, it might be worth looking inward. Why are you so bitter? Did he leave you, take your virginity, beat you, or other unspeakables? If he said you were fat, it doesn't mean you are. Or if you are, it doesn't mean that someone else won't enjoy you for who you are. More to love!!!
Hurt. Heal. Then get on with your life. Because frankly, my dear, that is the best revenge in the whole world.
don't react it's important!
anger is a valid feeling however don't touch anyone!
"Don't kill nobody."
Double negative!!! You basically said the equivalent of "Kill somebody"!!!
There is NOTHING wrong with anger, its actually pretty healthy IF you can find a constructive outlet for it. Killing your ex is not one of those things LOL..but sometimes we need to feel anger to work through everything.