I have to be honest here, I suck at nuance. That could very well be because I'm a guy, but when folks are all cryptic and talking around situations and consequence and repercussions and reverberations I break out in hives.
This is why the creator made me a man. So I can avoid and sift through most double talk with relative ease.
What does this have to do with price of new venners in Saskatchewan? Nothing really.
However, what do YOU think he means? He's married. He wants to spend the night with you. My guess is he doesn't want to sit up all night and make girl talk while you all paint eachother's toe nails. Nope, I'm guessing he wants to hit you with the big wallop.
I'm not sure why you're even confused about this. Perhaps you want it to mean more than it does.
It.Does.Not.
He's cheating on his wife and you're the lucky winner. It means nothing more or less than that.
Kudos.
By the way, when men talk, listen. Unless we're lying to you (because we care about you) we say exactly what we mean.
It was written.
I would like to point out that men do indeed speak in cryptic code. It isn't just a woman thing. For instance, a guy I am interested in recently told me that he doesn't want to lead me on TOO much. I am, 4 months or so later, still trying to figure out what exactly he meant by that without reading TOO much into it. And this is just one instance of a guy not saying exactly what he means...
In this case though, I think Mr. Panama hit the nail right on the top where he aimed the hammer.
It sounds like you just disproved your point. He said he doesn't want to lead you on too much - it means that he doesn't see a significant relationship developing. That once something better (for him) comes along, he will be gone. That simple. I could have saved you 4 months of mental anguish.
he spends the night in my bed after sex, doesn't touch me, not interested in me. wth? I don't get it. I have to tell him to leave in the morning. He also tells me this is not just about sex and not a bootycall yet only calls me to get together, not talk, and just have sex.
Men are all different but most of them can be confusing with their WORDS. They don't realize that us women really take it to heart what we hear from them because we like to see if they DO what they SAY. Anyway, that's my opinion in general. I'm 22 years old and I'm talking to a married man who's 38 years old. We're just talking "as friends" but we both know our intentions, at least I know mine are not innocent. He's really handsome looking and very nice to me. I know it's wrong talking to him because of my motives and our flirtatious conversations, but I LOVE the attention I'm getting. Who knows what might happen but I'm going to enjoy the ride while I can. Notice how I'm using the I word a lot? Hahaha.