It means he's either a borderline hoarder or he's just insecure interacting with people in the real world. Either way, he's not going to be much fun at a party.
For the record, I love Facebook and Twitter. I think they're both a lot of fun. Both my Twitter and my Facebook are public and it's easy to find me using The Google. I'm turning into a total Twitter junkie, it's a great ADD way to communicate with a fun group of people.
That said, Facebook and Twitter are not the real world. They are just a digital distraction, a way to tell the world what's up, to share your thoughts, and to stay in contact with folks you might not be able to otherwise because of distance or because we just lead fast-paced lives nowadays.
But it's not the real world. It is The Matrix. It is just 1's and 0's and no nerve endings.
So... these attractive party girls? They're probably just Facebook Hot. Facebook Hot is a person who looks amazing on the internet, but less so off. I have met many people who looked banging online, but ended up looking buttery in person. And the reverse can be true too. I've known girls who just aren't photogenic. Then you meet them, and suddenly you're the Mayor of Bonerburg.
Facebook is not the real world. Therefore, interaction that occur online are not truly real. Guys who spend all their time chatting chicks up online are guys who are never getting laid. This is truth. Why does he spend so much time online? He could be lazy. Or he could be getting off on the cheap ego boost that comes with being whoever you want to a bevy of women doing the same thing. Or he could be scared. Rejected too much. Boo hoo.
And I have been there. It can be crazy exciting, flirting online with chicks with hundreds of sexy photos. But, ultimately, I love women in the flesh more than on the screen.
Everyone seems so much better online - no warts showing on Facebook or Instant Messenger.... and i mean that in the metaphorical way. I think if your husband or boyrfriend's time on the computer and it takes away from his time with you, your family or his job then it's a problem. Otherwise, I think it might be good for his ego to flirt or chat online with women.... as long as he leaves it there.
almost completely right on. except for this "Guys who spend all their time chatting chicks up online are guys who are never getting laid.": often times facebook hot girls and facebook hot guys get their foot in the door online. So he could be using it to hook up in real life, especially if in reality his chances aren't that great. She didn't explain if the guy in question is her boyfriend or love interest...?
I can see the concern in it though. It's easy to feel jealous and not that worthy when your love interest is checking out hot women online. Though they don't realize it, it can do a lot to your self-esteem. Hopefully this isn't your boyfriend, or you might have to put your foot down. Hard.