"I find far too many dudes these day are either in-your-face pick up car salesman with moves and lines they cribbed from a poorly written book or shy little gummi worms, sweet but limp." Amen to that!

Awkward story- I was saying goodbye to an (engaged) guy friend of mine. I was sitting down and I was distracted and he was standing behind my back with his hands on my shoulders. Out of habit, I started leaning back to give him a kiss before I realized what I was doing and stopped myself.
My point? I do think certain kinds of physical touch trigger almost unconscious responses, so yellow light = very good advice.

I think it largely depends on where he's touching you...

Okay here's a story, I had a friend and he would always start wrestling with me. Like I would be sitting on the couch and he would decide he wanted the seat and we would wrestle over it. And he would always want to wrestle, I didn't mind because it was fun and well I like it when a man gets physical and shows some dominance, than one night we were talking and he tells me hes not attracted to me!! What is up with that?!

it means SEX

i'll second the yellow light. for a bit more encouragement, i'll also add that my current bf really upped the "touching" the week before he asked me out. if you're interested, just make sure you don't subconsciously shift away. good luck!

situation: we had a group date along with this guy I really like. Of the four of us, he was closest to me. when we were all saying goodbye, he touched me y hand. I really can't tell if he likes me or not. I know, physically I'm not his type. But, I don't know.people seem to notice that we are very close.I'm confused. maybe I'm just misinterpreting his gestures.he was kinda, my boss.

I have a friend that I've know for quite some time. I was watching tv when he suddenly just touches my face. I look up and then he suddenly walk away.

Ok. I'm a teanager but when I was in like 7th grade I was playing with my "guy friends" (not boyfriends) and we whould wrestle down the stairs of my school trying to be the first one in the lunch line but what I gotta say is one of thouse boys whanted to be my boyfriend in 8thgrade. It looks like he got the rong message.

I agree about the cautious thing, but I also think it's a sign he likes you and is just still a bit unsure. I am having the same issue. It's not a problem to me, because I know the man is cautious by nature. He seems very upstanding (military guy too). We had a wonderful date. He kissed my hand, did the 'look in the eye' bit, and stroked my cheek with the back of his fingers. He then complimented my eyes, which was then followed by a sweet, non-intrusive kiss. It was only a lunch date, so I doubt he was trying to "take me home".

So again, to me, this is a good sign. It makes me feel like he's relaxed around me and is getting used to the newness of the situation, but it also telling me he's interested.

Does anyone agree with this?

tru story: ok my class was goin to on a field trip to a muesem then to the ice skating rink ok so when we left the mueseum the busses werent there yet to my class went ona walk we went over this bridge then the busses came then when we were going back he started to touch my back (right where my bra is then we got on the busses then when we go to the skating rink me and my friend were puttng on our skates then me and my friends went skating then i started to get blisters so i took mine off then he came (he had already taken off his skates) and sat like really close to me and he was touching my arm and leg. what does all this mean

What if he touches your boob or your chin playfully. (NOT like sexual harassment)?

there's this guy that i like and we were in sunday school. and i was helping with this piece of paper. and he touched my hand and then stapled the piece of paper. what does that mean?

Hi! So there's this guy in my class we liked each other two tlyears ago but it was just for a while..well we've always liked each other but never been anything cuz he's had some girlfriends but he alawys stares at me. Now he has a 1 year girlfriend, but he once grabbed my arm telling me to go to the class he'll be next year, he also puts sometimes his hand on my shoulder, he touches my fingers when he's passing me something, he ALWAYS stares at me in class, he tries to be funny when I'm around , he touches my feet with his feet and sometimes he comes TOO CLOSE TO ME. I like him. Does he like me? What does all that mean? What should I do?

I have a boy I know he always grabs my but and I like it and then there's times where he has touch my but
And then I grab his hands and we kinda lock hands for 5seconds also last week when we were leaving school he's like wait give me a hug and u gave him a hug I think he likes me but I'm not sire because he told me he only let's this girl touch his hair because he likes her but lately he has been lettinge tough his hair I'm not sure if he likes me plz help me

Well im in 10th grade and about a week ago a bunch of people told this guy i liked him, then i told him my self and he was like im not looking for a relationship right now,and now me and him and his bestfriend and my bestfriend are always hanging out, and his attention seems to be drawn to me. My tickling me alot and wanted to wrestle me. We went out sledding yesterday night around 9 because it was the first day it snowed. He seemed to want to sled with me and everytime i feel he would come and jump next to me and just lay there..... Im so confuseddddd. :/

so there is this guy and I have known him for forever, and we have always kind of awkwardly flirted with each-other. he asked me out four years ago, but I was only thirteen and not ready to date him yet, so I didn't respond to his text message.And we have never talked about it since. our families always get together and stuff. we wrestle allot and it gets pretty intense to the point where we are both red in the face and have to lay down on the floor and pant for like fifteen minutes so we can catch our breaths, he does it over the most stupid things, like once I stole his chapstick and he totally leapt on top of me.I also once caught him looking at these pictures he had taken of me when I wasn't looking and when he realized I was behind him he exited out of them and put his phone under his leg.... the thing is, I am really awkward around him and can never think of the right thing to say. And whenever I try to text him, he never texts me back. do you think he likes me? I am miserable , what the hell can I do about this?

Hi I am on 8th grade and Well I liked this boy for a few months now and he always seems to find something to say to me or ask me, and in homeroom his seat is kinda near me but there is different rows and my desk isn't in his row but he always goes around my row to get to his seat and when ever i am in ELA he always looks at me and at lunch we can pick our seats everyday and him and his friends always seem to sit near me and then this one time we both cut the whole lunch line (there is 3 seperate lines 4 lunch u can choose to get in) but anyways he needed to get by me and so i let him go by me and there was a large space for him to walk and his butt managed to touch my hand and i'm like ''sorry'' and then the next day he was behind me and stood really close to me and then his hand touched my butt.

What does this mean? (oh yeah and even though i hardly, know him i know he isn't a perv!)

I rlly like this guy an dthis is the first time he actully keeps txting me who do u like and idk wat to say he always wrestles with me touchs my butt holds my hands putts his arm around me help

Okay I'm a teenager and there's this guy whos a little younger than me who me and my friends always play basketball with. He's always wanting to be on my team, he always laughs at my jokes, he touches me a lot, and when we're all sitting down he lays his head on my shoulder. This might just mean that he's a really good friend but I'm not sure......