Oh man guys suck... same thing is happening to me and has been with the same guy for months... Likes me, ignores me... is nice to me, we spend time together, then he ignores me... It's sooooo frustrating!!!! It's time to be done...

Maybe he's just busy. My guy and I will spend a ton of time together, then the next day barely text. There is at least 1 day per week where there is no communication. I love it because I can get caught up on other things without feeling like I'm an uncaring, terrible gf. Find something to get your mind off of it. If he's just being an a$$ then drop him.

ok my question won't submit but this answer is kind of related so i am leaving my story here...Ladies & Gents, please help!

I met this guy last Friday through a friend at a bar. He came up to me and told me I was absolutely beautiful. I laughed and said thank you that’s really nice of you to say. He asked me to dance, which we did jokingly, and he just hugged me for being a good sport. He bought me a drinks and sat and talked with me all night. He ask me to go back to his place, and I said I had just met him so I didn’t think that was a good idea. He knows one of my best friends very well and she assured me that it was ok, and so I went back with him. ABSOLUTELY nothing happened. We laid in bed and cuddled, it was the sweetest thing ever, like he didn’t want to let go of me. But we did nothing more than that. The next morning he had to run off to help a friend get his car out of the snow. He told me to stay and sleep and that he would call me later. He did…we chatted through txt ALL night long, literally from 6pm-4am! The next day (Sunday) he txt me again and we chatted for hours. That night he asked me to stop by before I went home, so I did. We hung out for about 2 hours…nothing happened didn’t even cuddle. We sat out the couch and chatted while watching tv. Before I left for home he asked if he could see me during the week and I said “Yeah sure.” He txted me again to make sure I got home alright and said good night. The next day, back to work, he texted me at 4:30 in the afternoon…we chatted til about 7:30, then he went to see one of our mutual friends in a boxing match and he said he would txt me afterwards. He did! At 10pm he txted me again and we chatted for about an hour until we both said we were tired and heading to bed. Again he told me he would talk to me tomorrow and said good night. Tues rolls around and he texted me after I got home from work, about 5:45pm. Again, like all the other txt he asked what my plans were for the night. I told him I was going to the gym and that was that for the night. He asked me if I wanted to do something with him later that night depending on what time we both got in from the gym. I said I would like to and we agreed on meeting up a bit after 9. I got to his place at 9:30 and at about midnight I said I should probably head back. He told me I could stay if I liked. I asked him what time he got up for work and since it was early enough for me to drive home and get ready in time I agreed to stay. So we hopped into bed and again cuddled so sweetly, seriously like he didn’t want to let go of me—ALL night long. He ended up kissing me and we kissed for some time but nothing else…then it was about 2am and he laughed saying we should probably get to sleep since we had to be up in 4 hours. We did…although we didn’t sleep well b/c the heat was so loud!! We laughed at this. The next morning we woke up and cuddled more (even though all night long I slept in his arms, he would hold my hand yadda yadda). We just laid awake refusing to want to get up but by 6:15am we had to. I threw on my shoes and sweatshirt and waited for him to come out of the bathroom to say goodbye. When I did I said have fun at work and he told me he would text me after he got out of work. I didn’t hear from him til 9pm. I was getting nervous too because this was MUCH later than usual…but he texted me after getting back from soccer. Here is the txt between us:
Him: “Hey how are you. Just got in from soccer…should have no trouble sleeping tonight ”
Me: “haha how was soccer? I went out to dinner with my parents tonight”
Him: “It was good, we had good numbers tonight. Where did you go to eat?”
Me: “Ah good, do you play for one of the local Bronx leagues? My parents belong to a country club so we ate there tonight”

He NEVER responded to me afterwards…very uncharacteristic of him. He knew I had the next day (Thurs) off so at about 9:30am on Thursday I texted him “Hey I hope you’re enjoying work b/c I am def enjoying my day off! I just got out of bed, jealous?” HE NEVER responded to me…I never heard from him yesterday. What does this mean? Everything has been going so well, no games being played, he’s been so sweet and kind and wanting to see/talk to me. What does this mean now? Also, his mom is coming out tomorrow (Sat) for a week to visit him…but I can’t imagine that’s why he is not talking to me. Answers??

Obviously, by the amount of detail you include here, you have obsessed and overanalyzed this one to death. But here's the simple truth. This guy liked you, and like all guys, wanted to have sex. He obviously was waiting for you to make the first move, when you were comfortable. But even after spending the whole night with him, you never did. So, he's on to find another nice woman, who will be comfortable initiating. Very simple. He saw this situation as being too much work, and moved on.

Ouch. But well said Gbeentheredoneit.

Obviously by all the details you write here, I can see that you are obsessing and overanalyzing way too much here. This one is simple. You both liked each other, but being a typical guy he was wanting sex, too, but it never happened. Some guys don't initiate, and this sounds like one of those. You didn't initiate anything either, and he saw this as way too much work, and moved on. Don't be offended, if that wasn't what you wanted, then you're better off that he did. And I repeat my famous word of advice in dating - NEXT!

Wow! That totally sucks! I am having the same kind of issue with a guy. He told me that he wanted to get closer to me and that I should be more aggressive and what not with him. Then I try to make plans with him and then he says that he doesnt want to date me and that he thought that he had put me in the "friend zone." How's that for a mind game. I dunno, guys are really weird sometimes.

Carly,

I went through a similar situation with a guy. No offense, I didn't analyze it as much because I learned a long time ago that actions speak louder than words. I believe that if a guy gives tons of lip service, then there ought to be actions to back it up. If he really wanted to see you that badly, no obstacle (whether it be fear, social standing, income, etc.) would hold him back. I honestly think it was one of two things.

1. Maybe the fact that you mentioned your parents are members of a country club kinda put him off, maybe making him feel like if he were to continue to see you, there is no way he could afford to take you out to places you may be used to going. Also, he may have had a previous relationship with a girl and the country club thing became an "albatross around his neck" and he's gun shy of going down that road again.

2. This is what happened in my case. You mentioned his mom was coming into town. That freaks guys out. When they've just met a girl, and their mom happens to come for a visit, oftentimes, they feel that it's easier to just "disappear" than explain to you that it's way too early to meet the folks. If his mom met you, then her entire stay would be a Spanish Inquisition on him about you, where he met you, how serious it is, etc. and guys do NOT like to discuss new girls with their parents. Even as a woman, I NEVER mention new guys to my parents until I know whether or not it's going to last longer than a month. I would not be surprised if you heard from him after his mom leaves town.

However, the WORST thing you can do, is text or phone him again. You texted him once on your day off and you don't want a man who lacks the
ba!!@ to chase YOU! Show him you are fine on your own. Either he calls or he doesn't, but save your pride and don't look like a desperate woman begging for his attention. That is very off-putting and it builds resentment in a relationship that lasts until someone gets hurt.

These are my humble opinions. In my case, he and I ended up being better as friends anyways....the fact that after four days he had our future mapped out raised SOOOOO many red flags that I almost threw-up!! haha!!

welllldamn, im going through the same situation .. =/

welllldamn, im going through the same situation .. =/

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I had been dating my man for a year before we said I love you to each other. We'd been saying it for about a month and one night he said I love you, babe goodnight. I said the same. The next day I didnt hear a word, same thing happened the day after until I got curious saw on Facebook that he'd removed every photo of us(but still said he was in a Relationship with me?) The next day I saw him on a dating site "looking for his Cowgirl"....eight months later he wants me back and will do anything to have me back. I'm giving him a second chance but today I've only had one text from him so I fear I'm going thru Deja Vu but want to keep an open mind. Hope I'm not being stupid lol.

does it matter? why do people label others based on their astrological sign? "he's is a aries? dont go out with him hes to bad tempered and head strong!". but in reality hes the most patient, and sweetest person I have ever met...astrology is bs... Seriously!!!!

People, especially guys, want what they can't have. In this culture, theres this constantly (mostly media) imposed need for, ''get it new, get it now, get it faster, stronger, better!!!!'' With that kind of pressure it's no wonder nearly nothing and no one lives up to our over-inflated expectations.

A few years ago, I had a huge crush on a guy, but I was really scared and didn't know how to tell him. So, I pretended that I didn't like him. When he would look over at me, I would look away, or if a subject was brought up about me liking him, I refuted. It's all about immaturity. Don't do what I did! Sit him down and let it all out on the table. Tell him you like him too, then kiss him! Or just do something spontaneously romantic. He's already told you that he likes you, but he could be scared. In any case, the ball is in your court and he could be waiting for you to make a move. If he doesn't respond to your advances, then he's screwing with your head and it's time to move on. No one should play like theyre in high school when theyre in a college game.

Or maybe he's just shy/embarrassed. Especially if you guys are younger, maybe even teenagers.
Young guys are crazy insecure.

i think guys should stop playing thoes game because it get me P.O!!! >:D like if you like me just tell me cuz i might like you backkk ;)

same for me i meet this guy he seems so perfect we talked for hours and hours the next day we talked for hours again and so on for the rest of the week he tells me that hes never felt this way before and he really feels me . he told me that he's told everyone about me, can't stop thinking about me and says i make him lose his breath. he just tells me the sweetest things allot the time. then he tells me he's going to Pennsylvania for a performance but he'll b talking to me the whole time .. now he hasn't texted or called like he usually does he always text-ed me at least once a day with a good night i miss you or good morning but non of that.. he told me he doesn't want to lose me and would only leave me for somethin bad.. but idk maybe he's busy

Man it is amazing how many women have a similar issue....I also am having an issue. ugh. Long story...I went to this bar with my sis, her bf and a guy I was kinda dating. Near the end of the night they all had left and I was chillin there by myself and this random guy comes up to me and tells me he has been noticing me all night and tells me I look sexy. I didnt know what to do cuz I was with someone and what not. He asked me for my number which I gave to him bcuz I have an issue with rejecting people, makes me feel like a horrible person. He text me after we left asking me to go to some party and i didnt respond, he called and i didnt respond (I figured he would get the hint). also i found out he is acquaintances with my sis bf (prob part the reason he chose to come up to me). Next day he messages me askin how its goin I say who is this (cuz I wanted him to get that he didnt make an impression for me to remember him) he tells me who he is and I say oh i dont remember you and he says thats too bad. End of convo. 2 days later he text me again askin how I am, tells me he thinks Im sexy and wants to see me again. I say im kinda seein someone and he says that doesnt surprise me and says if its the guy from the bar you should jump ship. That kinda made me mad so I didnt respond. I also found out he was persistently askin me sis bf to hook him up with me. a week and a half later he randomly text me late on a sat night just to say hey, i responded couple hours later but he didnt say anything (prob passed out). Well nothing happened with the guy I had been with at the bar and so as i thought about it I decided maybe i should give this guy a chance seeing as he clearly really wanted one. so couple days later I text him sayin who is this and he tells me the guy you met at such and such and i said thats what i thought and i said i heard you wanted to be hooked up with me...he said kinda did thought you were sexy...me: lol, wel my memory of you is a little hazy so you should meet up with me at this bar on thurs. first he said i work nights so you should see me sunday which i said i cant then he asked about that night and i said i was busy and i told him i was leavin for vaca in a few days and would be gone a week. he said he would try and make it out....i did end up seeing him that thurs and we talked for like 2-3 solid hours gettin to know eachother and havin drinks and he kissed me and that was it (he even walked me to my car and kissed me good-bye). He text me after i left sayin i find you interesting. the next day he text me just to see whats up. The next day he asked me to come have a drink with him but i was outa town already and i said how bout when i get back, he said Id like that. The next day he asked me to go drink with him but i still wasnt back so then i didnt hear from him that whole week i was gone. When i got back the next weekend i text him the next evening sayin whats up and he asked me to go get drinks with him and his friends. at one point during the eve i said i wasnt sure if i was supposed to text him or not and he said if you hadnt i would have eventually bcuz im not letting you go that easily. i ended up drinkin alot that night and things kinda happened (like everything but sex but i said no to that) next morning he called me a tease and asked what we were doing and i said lets just see what happens and he asked when he could see me again i told him i was goin to a friends bday thing then next day and he could go if he wanted. He text me that day and asked when i was goin to the event and he met up with me there just to see me even though he could only be there for 40 min (cuz he works nights). the next day he asked what i was doin the following day and i said hanging with this cute guy i met then he asked me to sleep over at his house that night and i said no so he dropped it and said lets go to the beach 2mrw and we did and after i said i was tired and he said he was goin to take a nap and asked me to join him and i said i couldnt cuz i had stuff to do. the next day he asked me to go to a movie and we did and he paid. i said that was fun and he told me he always has a good time with me when he was droppin me off at home. i didnt hear from him the next day bcuz he had some tournament and the next day i went to a concert tho he did text me to say have fun. the next two days i initiated the texting because he didnt and he usually does (once at least every other day) and i didnt hear from him the day after that but then the next day he asked me to go to the beach with him but then he fell asleep cuz it took me an hour to respond when he woke up he text and apologized and i said well what about 2mrw and he said yea. well 2mrw came and i hadnt heard from him by 3pm so i text him and said i dont get why you say you want to hang out and dont make an effort (i was kinda mad cuz he had fallen asleep on me the day before) couple hours later i get a response and he said things came up to which i said well you should have told me that and told him to have the consideration to tell me these things in the future so i am not wasting my time. he apologized then told me to come over and i said what we gonna do and he said his parents were gone and to come over i said i was busy but in a little bit I would (I knew what would happen when i finally decided to go to his house again so i decided before hand whether i wanted to have sex with him or not, which obviously since i went over there i did). He actually didnt initiate it, i did. I was there for like 3 hours and we cuddled and slept most the time i was there and he did the whole staring at me thing that he does when we hang out, kept kissing my forehead and touching my face and holding my hand.when it was close to when i had to leave he said lay with me a little longer i want to enjoy you. when i left he walked me out to my car and kissed me good-bye then as he got to his house again he came back and was said one more kiss. he text me that same night when he got off work just to say hi and then the next evening he text me to see what was up. The following day i text him to day hi and he never responded. then he text me the following day at 530am tellin me his parents were gone til 2pm and that i should come over if i want. so im thinking well chances are he wants sex at that time of the morning and I had to work from 8am-4pm so i just said im busy til 4pm. he text me sayin he works at 10pm and that i should try n stop by and that hed really like to see me right now and that he had a great time with me (i assumed he meant friday). I said i had a good time with you too but that i am not lookin for a sex buddy and i want you to know that. he said id want to sleep next to you more than sex. i said if you really want to see me then you will have to see me after for and he said ya i know. that evening he text me askin for my work schedule and so i text it to him. he didnt respond for like an hour (if you havent noticed throughout this he is slow with his phone which he told me is bcuz he doesnt carry it with him when hes in his house and he never looks at it when we are together i actually think he keeps it on silent when hes with me so i believe him) and this made me frustrated cuz he is so poor at responding so i text him sayin why do you want my sched when you dont respond back half the time, is this going somewhere, i need to know cuz i like you but i dont wana waste my time or yours. he responded with im sorry im not the most prompt i just wana know when im gona get to see you again. i said ya you are really bad with your phone, but you hardly talk to me if you want to hang out then say something and we will make plans and i told you we could hang out after 4 and you didnt seem that interested. i apologized and said he was busy in the evening and that he should have told me that earlier and i said we need to work on our communication bcuz its not workin the way it is. then he asked me to go to a movie the next day and i said id like that and i asked him what time (since our communication doesnt seem to work i wanted to have a set date) and he said call me after work. Next day I called him and he asked how my day was and what i was doin and i said the same thing and then asked him what the plan was and he said he was waitin for his mom to get home bcuz they were goin to eat with his grandma and that we might have to reschedule and that his mom had just kinda sprung that on him...i didnt know what to say cuz i was irritated but i kinda have to understand family should come first so i just said oh ok and said well let me know and i will ttyl and he said he would let me know within the hour. half hour later he text me sayin sorry about today which i figure was his way of sayin we had to resched and i said well i guess stuff happens. this was yesterday evening and i havent heard from him yet today and its already 9pm. Im just so unsure of how to read all this and yes i know i have analyzed this to death becuz i am insanely confused he seems interested but he isnt clingy like the guys im used to and he only text me once a day either daily or every other day and he doesnt want to hang out all the time like i am used to. but when he doesnt text me first i usually just dont say anything. and this may also be relavent: he hasnt had a gf in like 5 years and has just dated like 3 girls which didnt work out bcuz of them not him. like one he said they had one good weekend and then she told him she had a bf and wanted to break up with her bf and date him but he said no and one he said they had a good week and then she told him she was deploying in the army for 9 months in the next day or two so he obviously didnt want to wait. so im not sure if maybe he just isnt sure how to act and what to do since the longest relationship (of sorts, since they were only datin not bf/gf) was 1 week in the past like 5 years. we have been causally datin for the past month so technically that makes us the longest sort of relationship hes had in like 5 years. I know this is ridiculously detailed and long and i prob look really pathetic but i really really like this guy I have never connected with anyone like this, we never have weird silences, i love his personality and hanging out with him and i realized this BEFORE i slept with him which is why i did sleep with him earlier than i would normally. I dont think that hes this way bcuz hes dating other people bcuz i have been played before and i got that sour feeling in my gut and i dont get that with this guy so i dont think hes datin others. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated and any advice please!

I met a guy a few months back. We were hanging out a lot then only lately he started talking to me less because he had too much work at his job, then the topic came up and he told me bluntly he wouldn't go on a date with me. When we have been friends and that he liked talking and hanging out with me but cannot see us dating. I've decided to tell him how I felt about him and can picture us dating. Why do men do that? Make the girl like them, then later on in the friendship they tell the girl... "oh I don't see us dating or more than friends"

WHY?????????

Myy storry..
A guy I met onlinee I felt like we had this bomb of affection towards each other even just talking hearing his words. He was so caring it made me feel warm and comfortable around him. We did activities that couples do like have drinks in the beach while we cuddles walkk on the beach have conversationss that lasted hours.
I truely miss him soo much.
Butt he dissapears and its this on and off game were we talkk every other two months or so my heart is just breaking and shattering because when we meet we fall back and seem to continue where we left off and it seems so perfect but then should have known again..BAM:[ he ignores me

I now seen he has a girlfriend with that seen I will diffenatley not try
It hurts a lot but I can't keep letting this guy make a fool out of my heart.

I miss himm oh so very much Tho.

Myy storry..
A guy I met onlinee I felt like we had this bomb of affection towards each other even just talking hearing his words. He was so caring it made me feel warm and comfortable around him. We did activities that couples do like have drinks in the beach while we cuddles walkk on the beach have conversationss that lasted hours.
I truely miss him soo much.
Butt he dissapears and its this on and off game were we talkk every other two months or so my heart is just breaking and shattering because when we meet we fall back and seem to continue where we left off and it seems so perfect but then should have known again..BAM:[ he ignores me

I now seen he has a girlfriend with that seen I will diffenatley not try
It hurts a lot but I can't keep letting this guy make a fool out of my heart.

I miss himm oh so very much Tho.

So this is real similar to..but not sure how to react. I met a guy and we had an immediate connection. He'd call and text all the time, tell me how beautiful I was. Our second date we went hiking and he brought me flowers and then when we got back we went to dinner,,amazing day. A few days later we went to a soccer game with his friends and he was not affraid to show affection towards me in front of them. We all got along wonderfully. That was over a week ago now and I haven't seen him and he has made no attempt to make plans with me. In his defense I was suppose to be out of town this past weekend, and he's a single dad..so had his kids for the weekend and he also has 50/50 shared custody so they are there about every other day. Well Friday night he was out with his friend and called me and said he wished that I could come and meet him out and that he loves spending time with me, but it was late so we talked and texted until he went to bed. He had his kids Sat and Sun. Monday he said he was tired, Tuesday he had his kids, and today is Wednesday and he still hasn't made any future plans with me. He texts me everyday (haven't heard from him today) and says things like "I hope you're having a good day", "can't wait to see you and kiss you again". It just seems like I'm always the one initiating the texts now where it use to be him and the cuteness of them on his part has quit. So, can someone please tell me how to read all of this? No..I am not going to text him anymore without him initiating.

my guy tells me he loves me but yet he is too flirtatious arond other women he calls an text somebody but wont tell me who he seems to think its ok to do that when i say something about it we argue please give me some advise on this matter

I met this guy online and we had a lot in common. We would txt eachother everyday-all throughout the day. I drove out to meet him in person and we walked around his city and into shops etc. We had so muc to talk about there was almost no pauses. The next day I asked him if he would want to meet up again. He replied: deffinatly. In all caps. We talked that day as well. The next day he said he could come see me in about a week (it's an hr drive) and when I said I had no plans that day he said something like: I can't wait! Or: Im so excited! After that day we didn't talk. Thanksgiving came and I sent a txt to multiple ppl saying " happy thanksgiving everyone!!" he didn't reply to that txt. We didn't talk that day. The day after I waited until about 5 in the evening to txt him saying: hey are you alright? I sent you a txt yesterday and u didn't reply. Jus making sure your ok." he said: " yeah I'm fine. I thought that txt went out to everyone?" I said: yeah it did but I would still like a reply so I kno u got it :p oh well it's alright." he didn't reply to that txt. I jus feel odd about this cus we used to talk so much. I kno it's only been like 2 and a half days b4 I txted him but I would think he could at least wish me happy thanksiving or ask wats up after I sent him that last txt. Am I jus obsessing to much? I like him a loooot!

Woaaah. So many people have similar situations, guys really are confusing. Well, my story.. I'm 18 and i went to this guys party like two weeks ago, i went with my friends, and i was talking to everyone, as i knew so many of them from when we were at school. And then i seen this guy i've known for quite a while, who me and my friends met randomly once but hes always said hey if he's seen me, he's a really cute guy and everyone knows him, he hangs around with some assholes though, but he's always been the nice one. Anyway, he said hey to me as i was pouring a drink, and we started chatting loads because it had been ages since we last seen eachother, so we were just catching up really, we chatted for quite a while, then we were both back dancing with our mates and that, and then later on i was going to the toilet with my friend, and he was in the queue, and we were talking again and laughing about then we were kissing and that, then we were both with our mates and dancing in the main bit really, and i seen him and he was coming up and dancing with me, and there were other times when we bumped into eachother and would chat some more and share some kisses, and having a laugh and messing about. Normally, when i'm at a party and i share a few kisses with someone, i just leave it at that, but this time i kinda got feelings towards him, but as we all went home and i was thinking about it that night, i just thought i was being stupid and it was only some kisses. Then the next day, i was on my facebook and he had left me some hugs and kisses on my facebook page, so i replied with a little heart, but i still kept telling myself to stop being stupid. But it was him who wrote to me first, then he hadn't been online for a few days. Then one night i was appearing offline as i had things to be getting on with, and facebook was far to big a distraction and i thought he wouldn't be online anyway. So inbetween doing work i would check my facebook for any notifications and just a browse really, and i'd seen that he had poked me, it made me so happy, because he must be feeling kinda the same maybe? I thought he would be on his phone though so didnt go online, but i poked him back, and it continued. Later on, i'd finished my work and i went online, and he was online, i got butterflies and everything. I decided to be brave and say hey to him, so i did, and he was so pleased to be speaking to me, and said that he tried looking for me online for ages. Then we chatted again for ages and really had a laugh, then he hadn't been online much again, and then he was. And he was continuing to poke me, but didn't chat to me online, so i decided id say hey again so i did and i made a joke of something, which he replied to also in a jokey way but then after i replied he didn't reply. But hes still poking me, my friends say he could have his mates round which really aren't nice people but i dunno. Then today he was online and he didnt talk to me but is still poking me, but i decided not to be the one who spoke to him, even though i wanted to. Its just really really confused me? Why talk to me and be so interested by poking me first etc? then not bother, i really don't know? Any ideas?!?! :)

well theres this boy and i known him for 3 years and like i texted him hi he tested me a few hours later and said whats up and i was talking to him an dthen at nine something hes like im slpeeping then i was like why didnt u just say good night then

i met this guy online we talk like friends for a month so we decided to meet like friends but then he kissed me and i kissed him back we started moving to something more he told me he wanted to do it with me and i told him i was a virgin im 19 but still i lt him do me next day i told him how he saw me as a potential girlfriend and he said he though we were going out already cuz i let him have sex with me the next couple days he said he missed me three days ago i told him if he didnt want me and he said "here we go yes i do wanna be with you" now he never text me or calls me he has my number but he wont call i kind off send him some messages but he never replies i really dont know what to do i wanna believed he's busy babysitting his nieces but idk and a girl online has in his status his name someone help please

So this is my story
I met the guy the first day of the semester with my friends. He payed special attention to me and asked if we wanted to have lunch. The first day I told him I was busy. The next day I saw him and he asked again so we went and had lunch and then just talked a bunch about ourselves. Then for a week we would see each other and talk and like the usual guy he would say sweet things to me all day. So after a week, I text him to see if he wants to hang out and he tells me he is going with his girlfriend! Then he started telling me how Im too good for him and his life is so complicated even though I made it clear to him that I'm fine with that I want to stand by him and that he is the best one for me.So then we decided to just be friends for now. It get even more complicated, a couple days after he sees me and asks if we can spend some time outside campus so I agreed. We had lunch than went to the beach and as soon as we got there he told me that he would've never took me to the beach if he had a girlfriend! So basically he made the whole thing up maybe because he was not sure about everything at first. So now we are just "friends". Its been about two weeks and we decided to hang out at his house and watch a movie. I went over and we put the movie on. Than he starts to get closer to me and hug me and play with my hair. That went on for like an hour and than he says to me didnt we decided on just being friends. I'm like are you serious ?!? He started the lecture all over again of how he wasnt good enough for me and he's not ready to commit to anyone anytime soon! I told him I would wait and that all I wanted is to be with him etc... Next day I text him Good morning and no reply. Today is the 3rd day and I havent heard anything from him, I left him a message telling him to not just ignore me and call back but nothing! I really reallly love this guy and I don't know what to do to let him understand I tried telling him but it didnt work. I really can care less if he is not the best person in the world but in my eyes he is. What should I do I am really going crazy I feel I cant live without him!

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Okay i got a question iam talkin to this guy for about two yrs now we went on some dates w.e and it really was nothing serious but i really like him of course so whatever he would never really want or ask to hangout but that might be because he works everyday from early in the morning to late at night...but he also would say stuff that would make me jealous and he new that it would make me mad then when i told him to leave me alone and tryed to brush him off he would continue to text and apologize for what he said...so now we still text and sometimes our convos are flirty and sometimes out conversations are just talking about nothing he always texts me but really doesnt keep the conversation going so i really have no idea what to think?

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This happened to me before. I'm still not sure but I guess he was lying because he only wanted one thing, you know what that is.

Well I met this guy who is a marine sergeant. I 've met him beforein school but never really tallk to him because I wasn't into him and I was also pregnant. How we started to have conversations is because I poke him through facebook and ever since we just started talking to each other calling /textn each other I stop by his recruiting office to give him lunch. I was so freaking nice to the guy. He tells me that don't disappear on me so many times. I ask him why he tells me that because in the past everyone just disappear on him. He tells me he liked me and he was so shy to tell me. He know I'm not with the baby father anymore. He ask me to help him move to his apartment and we did but I guess it was just an excuse so we can hang out. The day after that we were suppose to go to the movies and i waited, then next thing you know he text me and tells me that he doesn't like the look of his bank. so yeah whatever and ever since then we barely talk . but we still poke each other on facebook. I called him to confront him to see if he isnt talking to someone else in my school. and he tells me no. I believe him, other then that we barely talk i don't know , i recieve a txt the other day sayn " I REALLY BEEN THINKING ABOUT THE YOU AND ME SCENARIO" WHAT??? is that suppose to mean i called him and txt him but he never answers he only pokes me on facebook? IM SOOO CONFUSE HELP ME!!!!

Well I met this guy who is a marine sergeant. I 've met him beforein school but never really tallk to him because I wasn't into him and I was also pregnant. How we started to have conversations is because I poke him through facebook and ever since we just started talking to each other calling /textn each other I stop by his recruiting office to give him lunch. I was so freaking nice to the guy. He tells me that don't disappear on me so many times. I ask him why he tells me that because in the past everyone just disappear on him. He tells me he liked me and he was so shy to tell me. He know I'm not with the baby father anymore. He ask me to help him move to his apartment and we did but I guess it was just an excuse so we can hang out. The day after that we were suppose to go to the movies and i waited, then next thing you know he text me and tells me that he doesn't like the look of his bank. so yeah whatever and ever since then we barely talk . but we still poke each other on facebook. I called him to confront him to see if he isnt talking to someone else in my school. and he tells me no. I believe him, other then that we barely talk i don't know , i recieve a txt the other day sayn " I REALLY BEEN THINKING ABOUT THE YOU AND ME SCENARIO" WHAT??? is that suppose to mean i called him and txt him but he never answers he only pokes me on facebook? IM SOOO CONFUSE HELP ME!!!!

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iam going through somthing like this only this guy tole me he liked me but didint want a relationship but just wanted to see me the thing is though wee have had sex a few times and then he went home and text me to tell me that was him home and i havint heard from him since and its been a month and a few weeks now when wee were together it felt right and i thought he was really
intrested in me now i feel used and dirty its a horrible feeling beacuse he seemed so keen i really liked him and i still do but i just wish i knew what was going through his head iam angry at him and i havint text him since i dont see why i should if hes not botherd to text me ? but i wish he would its my own fault for being so nieve if anything its made me relise not to do it agian beacuse
its really hurting me inside

argh, having the same problem here as well, i met this guy in a club from my friend's friend, at first it was all fine... he came up to talk to me and i would reply his questions usually they are short and simple, i was never interested in him AT ALL but my friend was, she tried approaching him but it didn't work. me on the other hand, just kept talking to other friends i know but he kept coming for me giving stupid reasons like.. 'you should have more Champagne' my cup was never empty as he kept feeding me more ( my guess obviously he was trying to get me drunk but sadly it failed) I showed no interest in him at all until it was almost 3 a.m. we started chatting more and then he kissed me, held my hand, told me how pretty i was then asked me to go home with him but i rejected his request. Meanwhile my friend who's interested in him wanted to go out for supper ( she was my only transport back) so i agreed to it... Dammit! that the biggest mistake i made in my life! the guy called a cab so we entered me, my friend, the guys that's after me and another fella, just the four of us, the guy who's into me, whom i shall name A told the cab to ride us to his hotel, i couldn't jump out of the cab in time ( stupid dress long dress i was wearing ).
And so, we ended up in his hotel, nothing usual 4 of us just started chatting and then the screwed up part was... my friend left with that other guy.. leaving me and A alone.. D=. he kissed me and said i was hot and gorgeous, he's fallen for me and then he made me have sex with him =( i was struggling all the way couldn't get out at first and then he told me it was alright, so i gave in ( how stupid i was ) even after sex he was still loving till the next day, when he was about to leave to his country asked me if i was free to follow him back, I told him 'sry i'm busy with my studies, it's my final year' then he told me he'll see me in a month time, the last i heard from him was his msg ' i'm going back now, see you in a month, miss ya too'. I can't believe i missed him even after what he's done it's been a week plus, i'm having sleepless nights cause of him

It's sorta painful though to be in this situation. I have this guy friend that I met over last summer and we r besties, but it bugs me so much he would tell me that he likes me and be so close to asking me out but tuen change his mind. And then this One time he asked how long do u think we would last if we went out? But he changed his mind and ignored me the next day and asked someone else out.... And then it repeats again he brakes up wit her and tells me he likes me just recently and then two days later he tells me that he get jealous of his ex girlfriend being around other guys and now they are back together:( is he really worth liking? This happened 3 times

my case is case is not different 2 week ago i spent my holidays in Austria especially in Zell am See what an amazing place. ANW i met a guy he sent a bar guy with his phone number and asked me to call him when i called him he said that he was noticing me for whole week and today he dared to give me his number. We took a long walk near the lake and the weather was rainy cold i felt if i am dreaming and then we talked a lot until 2 am he kissed me he promised me that we will be in touch and so many bla bla. the second day i was going to Vienna he said he will call but he totally ignored me. i was so angry at him and i don't know how i allowed my self to believe him it is really so frustrating. I HATE MEN. He really made me sad and angry on my holidays

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This same shit happened to me. What it usually means is that he's most likely falling for you BUT he's trying to push you away from him because he has been hurt in the past and he's only afraid of commitment and being hurt again... He feels some sort of attraction to you, but he doesn't want to lead you on too far because he's still twisted over his ex and he just needs some time to think. He needs to get over the past, but it's obvious he's still trying to hold on to it and it's only making the present difficult. Why should we have to wait around for some guy to make up his mind? F*** that! He's not the only man left in the world. His loss.

My “friend with benefits" recently contacted me(after a few months of no contact) via facebook, he asked if I had a pain pill cuz he hurt his back. When I say him, he started to tell me that he has a girlfriend now, and wanted to know how I was & if I still worked @ the same place, so on & so on. He told me he would hit me up & he has for a few weeks now. We have hooked up & has since talked about his dislikes of his new girlfriend. The other day before we said our goodbyes, he said I'll hit you soon & I haven't forgotten about you. Does this mean he has & still likes me & has feelings for me?

Well, I need some help figuring out this guy.. Okay, well I was visiting my cousin, I live in Arkansas and she lives in Missouri. Me and her usually go out and hang out with anybody we run into. Well we saw this guy walking past her house, and she knew him so of course she started talking to him and stuff. That was the first night i had met the guy. We all talked for about 20 minutes, max he told us he had to go somewhere and he'll be back. So, me and my cousin told him bye and then sat back on her porch and waited. A couple hours later, he had passed the house again and he asked if we wanted to chill. We said yes. All of us hung out all night. Had a blast with each other. Ill never forget that day/night. Anyways, the next night his friend sent me a text message asking me if i wanted to hang out so i said sure, and then once we met up with his friend he went and got the guy i liked. Once he got him we went to his friends house (The one that had sent me a text.) and we hung out at his house all night. The following week i was getting text messages from his friend every night asking if me and my cousin wanted to hang out, so we did. Me and the guy i liked made out almost every night.. The last night i was in Missouri, we only hung out for about 10 minutes then they left. The day after i got in Arkansas, I logged into facebook and he was online and he started talking to me. We talked from 6pm to 3am (On facebook.) He doesnt own a phone so thats the only way i can get in contact with him. He told me that he really liked me and everything. I told him the same. He said i should try to move down there, and if im able to convince my parents i will. He told me that i would have a new bf if i moved down there. Which im happy about that because i havent had a bf in forever. We talked on facebook for about 3 days straight, all hours of the day, and night. He hasnt been on in 2 days so i havnt been able to talk to him. I'm kind of worried because, he commented on this girls picture telling her she should be a model. (She was wearing a bikini.) My cousin asked him if he really liked me she told me that he got mad for her asking. Right after she asked him that, he messaged me on facebook telling me to tell my cousin to stay out of it.. Or something like that. I couldnt figure out why he got mad at me for telling her that he liked me. Half of me thinks, he just told her he liked me to make her shut up.. or idk. Any suggestions? I kind of think doing this is pointless because i kind of feel stupid for asking this lol. But, I just want some advice. Should i keep talking to him or just let it go?.

Welp, I have no one to vent to so here I go...
I have been talking to this guy for nine months,.. met on Facebook, never met him.. he was mostly a cocky ahole but I could hand it back to him just as bad when we first started texting. We fought more than got along but for some reason we always stuck together.
Well, he started ignoring me one weekend and I find out he was on the works of getting a girlfriend. I texted him the night I found out and flipped my crazy on him. We hadn't talked for a very long time, couple months and he pokes me on facebook..... Wow, talk about getting really messed up in the head... He told me he would have made me his wife but I hesitate and blah blah blah. I find out he's engaged to this chick who lives 100 some miles away from us after like three months of being together. I felt like it wasnt going to last long.... And it didnt. They broke up after me and him met each other for the first time. We met once a week and the first three times we met was sexual, then all the rest of the times we met was not even holding hands or kissing. But hugging and I LOVED IT! But its his birthday coming up and were supposed to meet up tonight but he's ignoring me and wont text me. I don't want to bother him but I'm scared this is a repeat or he's just busy.
Please give me some insight. Thank you.

Welp, I have no one to vent to so here I go...
I have been talking to this guy for nine months,.. met on Facebook, never met him.. he was mostly a cocky ahole but I could hand it back to him just as bad when we first started texting. We fought more than got along but for some reason we always stuck together.
Well, he started ignoring me one weekend and I find out he was on the works of getting a girlfriend. I texted him the night I found out and flipped my crazy on him. We hadn't talked for a very long time, couple months and he pokes me on facebook..... Wow, talk about getting really messed up in the head... He told me he would have made me his wife but I hesitate and blah blah blah. I find out he's engaged to this chick who lives 100 some miles away from us after like three months of being together. I felt like it wasnt going to last long.... And it didnt. They broke up after me and him met each other for the first time. We met once a week and the first three times we met was sexual, then all the rest of the times we met was not even holding hands or kissing. But hugging and I LOVED IT! But its his birthday coming up and were supposed to meet up tonight but he's ignoring me and wont text me. I don't want to bother him but I'm scared this is a repeat or he's just busy.
Please give me some insight. Thank you.

Yeesh, what is wrong with you ladies? First of all, why are you asking for advice in a "comments" section? Second, the advice to everyone is the same: stop over-analyzing. Stop over-thinking. Just STOP! Do you think the guy you like is spending this much time thinking about you? If he doesn't want to be in touch, he's not going to be in touch. If he wants to see you, he will. Also, if you read all of these stories, there is a trend. The guy seems SOOO interested at first. He thinks you're sexy, and beautiful, and you have a great "connection". They always say that...it's exciting and new. But haven't you ever changed your mind after seeing someone for a little while? Sure, sometimes it works out, and sometimes it doesn't. And it sucks when it doesn't, but why sit around and wait for someone who is not sitting around and waiting for you? Live your life. Work out, hang out with friends, get a hobby. Why do you have so much extra time to be analyzing every action, every text message, etc? You shouldn't. A guy will want to date you more if you are busy...and not pretend busy, but actually busy. The "rules" don't really matter...in the end, as long as you're not a clingy psycho and have self-respect, if it's going to work, it's going to work. And if he's not that interested, he's going not going to get in touch again. But I assure you that NO ONE sharing a story here has given a guy mixed signals (okay, I didn't read them all because they were getting pretty redundant...but this is true for at least 60% which is what I read). The guy knows you like him, so the ball is in his court. Leave it alone, stop thinking about it, and be happy and complete on your own. If he calls, great. If not, at least you weren't sitting around waiting for him, and in that case it will be his loss.

Ok people I have a real need of advice here, none of this he didn't call me crap.
this is not a story of whether this man likes me or not or loves me. I know this man is head over heels for me, and is willing to do anything for me to get back with him. He did not cheat on me, he did not hit me, he never ignored not one of my phone calls, He was very persistant and had no shame telling me how he really feels. He chased me basically. This guy is hot, i mean hot hot , tall, dark, buff, he plays college football, has a college degree in sports medicine, makes a lot of money, and has a really good heart, and would've been the perfect guy. However I am in need of some serious advice. Ok so hears the situation. I had a one night stand with this guy a year and half ago. I call it a one night stand because we only had sex once, but dated for a couple weeks. Well that one time got me pregnant. I had woke up one morning and opened the bathroom door to find him banging heroin on my toilette seat. I simply walked out of the bathroom shocked at what i saw and sat on the chair in my bedroom and waited for him to come out. He walked out of the bathroom and stood in my doorway, and said i'm sorry i'm addicted to heroin. Not knowing what to say I told him to shut the door and sit down. To be honest that moment i saw that it had broken my heart, here i thought i found this perfect guy with this great job, i was pregnant and we were going to have this beautiful family. What a load of crap. But anyway I told him that he needed to seek help. I was very harsh on him. When he left that day i told him that it wasn't going to work out. He said he would quit and fix up his house for me and our son. Which he did quit, and he did fix his house, I still didn't trust him so i took off to massachusetts and left him. 9 months later i gave birth to his son, (Our son) there were times during my pregnancy that i thought about him, and that maybe i had made a BIG mistake. They guy called me non stop upset at what i did, leaving me messages that were 15 minutes long practically begging for me to come back home. I had changed my number. I thought leaving my son's father was better for my son. But i wondered what if? What if he was doing well, and what if he really was clean. So I decided after a year and a half to contact him. Unfortunately i was told by one of his family members that he was in prison for tampering with evidence. So i found the prison in which he was located and contacted him. When i got his first letter (Which now i have 15 in the three weeks we've been talking) He was so upset about what i had done. He said that he wants his family and that when i left he had lost it. He said he's never stopped thinking about me, and he wants me to give him one shot to prove it to me that he is a changed man. He's currently clean and says he will never go back to drugs. (Which he keeps repeating to me in his letters) He says he's a man of god now, and he realized drugs wern't his problem. Sinning was. He talks about marriage and the life he wants to build with me. His sister contacts me on facebook saying i should give him a chance and she wants it to work out between us, and that the man i saw was not the man he was. We have an 8 month old son now who he's never seen. I'm afraid that if i do decide to get back with him he might go back to his old ways, and i don't want my son anywhere near that lifestyle. Even though he's reassured me 1,000 times that won't happen. I'm not so sure. I want to move to where he is and start the life we both want. But i'm not sure if that's the right thing to do. I know this is some tuff advice to give but I wanted to hear anyone's thoughts about the steps i should take.

And uuuuuh just saying from my experience for some of you ladies.

Act like you don't care! Let the guy chase you! Because in all honestly men hate to be ignored. So when you get that text or call from your "interest" Go find something fun to do, wait atleast a day before you return it. I bet he'll be blowin up your phone.

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That's like what happend to me,I never really liked this guy and he's always liked me then when I start to really get feelings for him he still likes me and we would call eachother "Babe and "Baby and we just really liked eachother I thought he would ask me out like he did before...then he ignored me for one day so I texted him saying heyy what's up?(: and he says...I have a girlfriend

Ok this has happened to me quite a few times and more recently in the last few years, coincidentally? When I was struggling in my life emotionally and had no career or really education. I still don't. Anyways, met this friend of my at the time sorta boyfriend. They spent a lot of time together which made me jealous and I felt like my boyfriend was treating his friend way better than me. I persued his friend at first he was saying he didnt want to get together but the more I pressured him to do so and once I even showed up at his home cuz I was getting impatient and I wanted some kind of truth. Worked out pretty ok, he had just started his school career. Until a few months in I find his family is calling every day begging him to come back home, and they showed litle to no interest in me. I was realising the realtiy of it so I tryed to let him go. There were times he only wanted me if I showed desperation, and he held his family up to way better priority then me. I decided to move far away, on the way there I met someone like a dream come true. This guy did similar things to what some one mentinoed above becoming obsessed then letting off and back again. I drove back to see him and there someone who claims they are his cousin (he lives with his sister, it was prolly her) asked me a bunch of questions and we got disconnected and i never found his home. By now, he Doesnt really undrestand the level of stress Ive been through. Two days later I call he yells some random words into the phone and hangs up on me, I text no answer, I called no answers.. about 5 days later my number is blocked after he answered and told me its still him by name and asks who I am.. I was confused, this person I spoke to seemed completely different then the one I believed I knew. But yeah could no longer even reach his voicemail or text him after that day. I feel that he wasn't very honest to me. I dont believe hes a very happy person, but I dont need something like that bringing me down after all. Now my guy friends asking if I like his friend... Again, more sketchy confusion. Ive read and heard that guys Like mystery but I dont believe they do. They just want to know the facts and they like to try to do what they feel is the best way to get such facts. Thats really human nature. and guys dont need sex, in the way that females need sex. Thats where the issue lies. Female may desire sex more, but she won't just admit it. and looks can't tell your story. My experience, people are often ruled by glitz and idea of sex, which to many of us is a waste of time.

Wow never been to this website but im luving it.. im going thru the same crap wit this guy i knew and he asked for my number years ago but i totally ignored and now i got a kid and he does too, im talking to him he says he likes me but i jus dont c it. He tells me he misses me so now im confused we r messing around but he says he doesnt want anything serious but yet gives me hickies and gets jealous so what are his true feelings. Im falling for him and i didnt want that so now wat do i do?

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Good luck getting people behind this one. Though you make some VERY fascinating points, you're going to have to do more than bring up a few things that may be different than what weve already heard. What are trying to say here? What do you want us to think? It seems like you cant really get behind a unique thought. Anyway, that's just my opinion.

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I have a simular story! Bah I just wonder if I was completely stupid for doing this....Well it started by a website stickam. I was new to it and my brother introduced me to the live website. Well I went "live" one day (monday) and there was this guy that entered my room. He is from England, and he was so nice. He just kept saying that I had such an amazing smile and yadda yadda... A reall smoozer should I say. So before I got off we exchanged e-mails and skype names so that we could keep in touch. I mean we really hit it off (so I thought). Well tuesday I get home from school and he was on skype waiting on me. He went on to tell me he GOOGLED me and found a pic of me at the cafe I worked at. I had never been "googled" before so i thought that was a compliment. We video chatted it up for a couple of hours, but he had to go becaue they are six hours ahead of us. Wed. rolls around and we chatted on skype again for almost four hour about all kinds of stuff, boyfreinds/girlfreinds, food/music ect. He just kept saying how much he wished he could come to america soon, and how his work allows him to come to america every-so-often, and we should meet. Anyways Thursday rolls around and our convos started to get intence, and he wanted to try cyber sex or what not. Well it sounded fun and I had never done it so we tried it. It was nice, and he went on to say how amazing i was and he would do anything to be here, but again it was getting late so he had to go.He eneded it by saying night sweetie, which again put a smile on my face. So later that night I get a random text saying "guess who". I knew it was him, but I didnt know how he got my number (assuming my skype info) but was happy none the less that he took the inititive to look up my number and text me. We said goodnight and whatnot. Well Friday rolls around and I wait for a text or a skype call or anything. Well later I chaeck my e-mail and THERE is an E-MAIL from him. It said freinds tonight....getting beer and watching the house of wax (a movie i told him he should see) with freinds, should be a great night to relax. I was shocked that he didnt just text me that. I mean he did afterall text ME first, and LOOK up my number. I was puzzled. He never signed on or anything. Saturday is here and this morning I got an e-mail again from him with a youtoob video. so I decided to text and laugh about his video (A LIVE PUSS AND BOOTS). a simple text.... aint heard nothing back....
I dunno what it means. I mean I have never been into meeting guys over the net but this guy somehow really got to me, like I actually liked him weird as it sounds....Im guessing cyber sex is just as real as real sex...do u think he "loved me and left me".
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same thing is happening to me this boy said he liked me but we were not dating nd he called me babe ny honey nd stuff nd then the next day I tried tlkin to him nd he ignored me I really like him now since he said he likes me nd I really want to date him but its so confusing anymore help

same thing is happening to me this boy said he liked me but we were not dating nd he called me babe ny honey nd stuff nd then the next day I tried tlkin to him nd he ignored me I really like him now since he said he likes me nd I really want to date him but its so confusing anymore help

hmm wow im going thru a similiar situation... i like this guy,, i used to work with him for a couple months, and in the time i knew him, i felt like he was the sweeetest guy ever.. he would be so affectionate and always hug/kiss on the cheek when he sees me. so i would give it back.. and thhose hugs have been closeeeeeee
and we became goood friends and what not.. but i realized i was falling for him,, and i was kinda scared to tell him.. i didnt want to messs up the friendship we had.. and he really was a sweetheart.. we went out to a party one night, and it was wierd. he was dancing so intimately close to me.. i never imagined he'd be like that with me... i already liked him so i complettly enjoyed his touch..later at the party.. after dancing for a whileee, i kissed him.. and he just stood there all shocked.. im confused because i thought he probably had some feelings for me in some way because he was so close to me that night.. but after i kissed him, his face was like omg what did she just do.. and after that, we just hugged while swaying a bit to the music. but that was it.. we go home that night, barely saying anything.. i ended up resting my head on his shoulder on the train.. and that night i come home and text him and he said he had a great timeee and he was happy i invited him and as we were talking he seemed sweeet but a lil difff, and then we talk couple weeks later, hes all difff.. so now its like we barely spoke.. if i see him and i feel weird cuz i iniitated the kiss i usually NEVER iniate things.. and i work at the diff dept now, but i still see him here n there.. how should i behave with him? :(

K so I just have a question. I have an experience with a guy and its kind of a long story. But last year this guy and I were friends on facebook and he started writing me messages and we were talking. I started to like him a little. We were talking about who was gonna win the NBA finals and talking and flirting. Then we just stopped talking and a few weeks later he was in a relationship. So I forgot about him and a few months later my friend and I go to a scary movie and he and his gf happen to be in the same movie. A few hours later he writes me a message on facebook saying " too scary for ya?" And i just responded back and said oh ya it was soo scary but was joking about it. I thought it was a little weird that he was writing me when he had a gf, but didnt think anything of it. I just thought he was being friendly. Well.. haha.. we were writing again and it was going on for a few weeks when he was with his gf. Then he knew I was going on a trip to disney land so we stopped writing. I worked at a movie theater and after my trip he and his gf come into see a movie. He saw me and said hey how are you? he looked like he was in love with me or something. And then when he walked out he was putting his arm around his gf. Then 3 days later he writes me again and asked how my trip was. I was thinking what the hell? I said it was good.Then we start writing again. I stopped writing him, and he writes me back again. Then told me to text him and gave me his number. I just wanted to be friends with him so I texted him. Then he didnt txt me as much. Then I just thought forget it this is just too weird. Then he texts me after a week and is acting like he likes me. Never again did I text him first. He Would always text me first. He even commented on my statuses on fb. When ever he texts me he ends it usually. He would never mention his gf. He was texting me about 9 months out of the whole 12 months they were together! he wanted to hang out. I would bring up his gf but he wouldnt respond to that. Then we txted for like 12 hours one day and he acted like he liked me and sent me pics. Then he breaks up with his gf. I was thinking he would start talking to me more. But didnt hear from him for a few weeks. He texts me now, but not as much as he used too. He told me we need to hang out. And he always puts smileys in his texts and said Ill text you tomorrow k? night. But its been 4 days and havent herd from him. He takes high leveled college classes so maybe he was busy and forgot? or didnt think anything of it? idk? The only time ive talked to him in person was 1 time at the college. He said he liked my personality and thought I was cute. So do u thinks he likes me? or is just playing with my head?

Ok, so i go with my friend to one of her reunions and I meet this amazing guy, he stays with me all night we laugh and talk and flirt he tells me how beautiful I am and he tells all of his friends aswell. So then he asks me for my bbm pin and I give it to him when the night was over we said goodbye and he messaged me later saying how much he liked me and how much he wanted to go on a date with me and then the next day...nothing, he deletes me from his contacts and everything, but I really really like him, he is on facebook but of course I haven't added him coz it makes me look like a stalker doesn't it? I really want to add him though because we had this huge connection, what does this mean please!!! :'(

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I need help!!! I met this guy at school...he seemed like a nice guy. He gave me his phone number and i sent him a text two weeks later. We would text everyday all day. He would send me messages saying how hes so excited he meet me. However, he always made it clear that he did not want a relationship...he only wanted to be friends. But his text messages were not messages you would end to a person you only want to be friends with. Anyways, he knew that I have never been with a guy before and I have never kissed a guy either. He was actually the first guy I did kiss. Afterwards, I would see him around school and he would just wave at me and say Hi. I thought that was weird because we just kissed two days ago and now you're just waving at me...like I'm just your buddy. I then saw him walking with another girl. I think he was trying to talk to her. That really made me feel like a fool...especially him being the first guy I ever kissed. After that, I didn't text him...he sent me a text a week later and its been two weeks now and I haven't replied. I saw him the other day and he acted like he didn't know me...what should i do?

Ok, ive liked this guy for three yrs now and we have been friends the whole time. when i first met him i was like, he's cute, then i got to know him a little and he's like awesome, and he ALWAYS makes me laugh. (hes the skateboarder type... YUUMMMMY!) anyways, i think hes awesome, and today when my dad was picking me up from school (note im in 7th grade) i told him to come close to me, and i whispered to him, i like you, and he responded, "aleright" there was no... REALLY!?! or no GROSS it was just, aleright, no tone whats so ever. im so confussed, and i dont know what me meens by it. and a couple weeks ago he told me he liked jenna, (what i was thinking was... stupid bitch -.-) haha.. :S and anyways i really need help, like does anyone know what this dude ment???? help me and i'll be your bestest friend ^ . ^

my bf broke up with me and i want him back but hes not ansering me and he still loves me buy he also brock his ribs because he got in a fight with a guycuz he kissed the guys gf when we were dateing and he broke up with me like the day after he kissed her and when i came home from school(btw im in 8th) and he said im sry but were throu and i asked him like a million times y and he finaly said idk and i sad omfg rly uggh and them i said bad things to him and hes like f*** this im out and i said wht ever and i havent heard from him sence!!!!! ;( and im sad now and its been like a week uggh cant take it anymore!!!!!!!

thats my concern I met a guy 2 days ago everything was going great then when one thing jumped to tghe next I am here wondering and sort of crying I don't think its worth a teat. what do you think?

I need advice as well. Soo I met this guy at a kick back few months ago, I thought he was really cute & was surprised that he actually started talking to me, so we chatted it up for a bit & he asked for my number so I gave it to him then he asked if I wanted to go somewhere more quiet, & obviously I said yeah. We went to my friends backyard and it was just us two, he started asking me if I had a boyfriend or if I was talking to anyone I told him I wasn't and he said so it would be ok if I kissed you? So then we started making out, but it was getting late so I had to leave & so I said bye to all my friends and just waved bye to him & then I left. he didn't text me the next day, but he did the day after that. We texted for a while for a cuple days. & then nothing. My friend who's really good friends with him kept asking me if I liked him, but I kept saying idk cus I rlly didn't since I barely knew the guy. Blah blah a week passes then he texted me saying how come I haven't texted him? Blah blah we start texting again. Well two months pass by & we occassionally use to text eachother (I was usually the first one to text him). Then I decide to go to a party, my friend said he might be there. So I went and he's there, I see him & just say hi & smile. Then I just start talking to my other friends, couple hours pass & we don't talk at all, we stare at eachother though, & his friends just look at me and smile then whisper something to him. after a while I'm just over it & want to go home & all of a sudden he texts me saying how come I wasn't talking to him, & blah blah I end up being the first one to talk to him and then we end up going to the backyard again and start making out then he holds my hand and takes me somewhere else and we start making out again & do other stuff. The whole time he tells me he really likes me & he tells me that we should be together, etc. So anyways, I go home & I get a text from him saying "I really like you". & I got butterflies in my stomach cus I rlly do end up liking him sooooo much. But after that day he doesn't rlly text me & the only time he does is when I text him first. he partys a lot, & when he does invite me to hang out its around 2 in the morning so its too late for me to hang out. Uhh I like him so much & its been like 2 months since I've seen him, & I honestly don't know what to do. I feel so stupid. Anyone know what I should do? :/

He just wanted a one niter.... That's simple...

I have not gone out in years, im a single mom. so here i am working at this place not looking for a relationship getting up everyday feeling good, going to work. So i find out this guy from work that i never would have imagined myself with has a crush on me the ass manager tells me he wants to take you out hes a good guy, he gives me his cell# hes very shy he texts me hes not very good at this whole meeting a girl thing. we start talking for the next couple of days he has a really good sense of humor. He told me i was pretty,just all the above he started to text me and at first he asked me to hang out i felt nervous so i didn't than at work one day we met up after work we just got along so well he did not make any move.We met up again and he wanted to peck kiss me when i thought he wanted to really kiss me so he says to me no slow down. He thought it would go to far and he did not want to ruin anything. finally when we had that kiss i could not forget it and the next day he had to go away he lost the job i was crushed he texted me we could not see each other anymore and i said no please dont do that so it took a whole day he finally called me and told me what happened and because of the circumstances we would not be able to see each other for a couple of months and i was feeling it in the pit of my stomach. He called me and texted me every single day that i started to fall inlove with him, He said the emotions and the connection and feelings all of it,just everyday it would grow.He mentioned when he got done with where he was he wanted to move in with me and that was the only way we could be together. I told him to take a couple of days from where he was to see me I have a child to think about. He talked marraige, kids. My point is im now hurting because when he came to see me he was so set on moving in he loved me. He left the next day and left a note saying he was not happy now he came from a place where he was being a mentor leader for kids who need god in their life and they need to go the right direction.I could totally understand that. He completely did a turn around when i spoke to him his personality was so nasty i forgot to mention he is 2 years clean he also needs god and wanted to go back there saying these kids need him which i totally admired. we did not even have sex well we fooled around that was it. I am now inlove with him i find myself encouraging him he tried to push me away and my heart hurts so much.He wont speak to me over the phone we just text now.when i asked if he ever meant what he said to me about any of his feelings he said yes but that is irrelevant at this point in his life so i said because you need the lord he said very much so. He did say that he does not want a relationship with me at all a couple of weeks ago on a text than a second after that he text me i dont want any kind of relationship with anyone right now. He is focusing on why he is there he says and on god. there is nothing wrong with that i just hope he does not forget me. i really need some advice.

I like this guy named Nick and he told me he liked me after this girl named named Kelsey said to give her a couple weeks after he asked her out. We are walking home he's telling me I'm cute he likes me. suddenly he wants a relationship after that he wants to keep it a secret. He's ignored me for 2 days now. What do I do like him a lot but I'm sick of being heartbroken not to mention all those girls that are crawling all over him. I tried being a friend I tried relationship what should I do?

I'm having the same problem too. First this guy tries to reach out to me trying to get my number to call me and we talked for a while and text a lot and calls my house saying he's been invited over when he wasn't and now he's completely ignoring me. I see him at a workshop this week so I'll ignore him back. 2 can play that game. Now he hasn't text me since Thursday. Does he just want me to tell him I like him? I told him about texting and he says I'm ok don't worry about it. Now I'm upset with him and confused. Any advice?

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okay! here's my story.. me and my sister were bored one night then she called her boyfriend and asked him if he wanted to hangout with her,he said "sure" and then she told him that i was going to be with her so she asked him if he has a friend with him so he said "yes i do" then he told his friend about and what not and then the guy asked for my number they gave him my number... and then he texted me that night,we started talking till i felt sleepy so i told him "goodnight" he said the same.. he texted me the next mornning with a goodmorning text. we talked thru the whole week, he would call me and we would talk on the phone and then it was saturday we decided to have a double-date. me my sister,her boyfriend and the guy. we went to the movies, i wouldnt let him touch me or anything at first. and then we got out of the movies and we were headed home, then he was holding my thru the whole ride, it was soooo nice.. i was kinda feeling him and then my sister and her boyfriend were sitting on the back seat,we could hear them kiss and stuff and the guy was kinda bothered by them..i told him to just ignore them. and then when we got home,he was gettinq close to me and of course i was feeling something. so we kissed and i really didnt wanna leaave but i had to go..he told me that he'll call me that night to tell me if he got home safely but he didnt. the next day he texted me and told me he was still alive. and then he txted me again and he said"I REALLLY LIKE YOU" i was happy to hear that so i texted him back and told him i like him tooo....that whole night and day i couldnt stop thinking about him...he texted me later that day and said that he couldnt stop thinking about me since that night...i was sooo happy to hear that too....so he told me that he was going to see his parents out of state. i was kinda sad but i told him to have a safe trip.... so he started texting me less after he went to see his parents, i was playing it cool at first but i couldnt help but text him...he texted me back we talked but he seemed different. so i kind of ignored that... soo we hung out once twice again and i was still pushing him away, i made him believe that i didnt like him but i really like him... the last time i saw him was like a week ago and he never texted me and i tried to send him a goodmorning text but he never replied to it... sooo please i need an advise on this one, i dont know what to do...I REALLY LIKE THE GUT :( i wanna hang out with him once more and show him how i feel!!!! but he's not even making any efforts! does mean he has moved on?

IDK what to do anymore. . .me and this guy have been exclusive for the past month with each other. This past saturday he DID NOT text me whatsoever. So my thought was like ok he is probably hanging out with his family since its the holidays. HOWEVER, he would send me "Good Morning" everyday and why not today?? So i blew it off. He finally texted me saying that he wasn't getting his messages and all that stuff. So i believed him.

I have been hurt before and like i am giving him the benefit of the doubt but like i don't wanna go on with this relationship if the outcome will be my heart getting broken. I have been told this before where the "phone wasn't getting good service and all that" and find out later that they were with another girl or some shit that was like OMG!!!

SO please if anyone here can help me, i would really much appreciate it

IDK what to do anymore. . .me and this guy have been exclusive for the past month with each other. This past saturday he DID NOT text me whatsoever. So my thought was like ok he is probably hanging out with his family since its the holidays. HOWEVER, he would send me "Good Morning" everyday and why not today?? So i blew it off. He finally texted me saying that he wasn't getting his messages and all that stuff. So i believed him.

I have been hurt before and like i am giving him the benefit of the doubt but like i don't wanna go on with this relationship if the outcome will be my heart getting broken. I have been told this before where the "phone wasn't getting good service and all that" and find out later that they were with another girl or some shit that was like OMG!!!

SO please if anyone here can help me, i would really much appreciate it

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Alright, I have a question for a topic super similar to these. I have been seeing this guy off and on for quite sometime and have been pretty much okay with him popping in and out of my life, until I realized he's someone I could see myself with in the long run. during one of the times that he was out of my life, I got back together with an ex. I knew this really upset him and every once and a while he made an effort to let me know that. I couldn't get him out of my head so I knew the relationship I was in had to end. Now I've been trying to take baby steps with him but every time I try to pull closer he feels more distant. I don't understand after he was the one making an effort to tell me how he feels. I'm a college student and he is back home so I know that plays a part but now I'm home from school and he he hasn't made any effort to see me. we have plans this Saturday to go to NYC, should I bring up him being so distant and how should I approach this topic without seeming clingy or desperate???

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