It means he hasn't had sex in a very, very long time. Probably because he does things like say "thank you" after sex.
I suppose he could be just very polite. Did you bang a butler?
No? Then, yeah, he said "thank you," as if sex is a favor, or a service, or a performance. Correct post-sex phrases include, "You were amazing," "Kiss me," or "Blaaaaaaaah."
I suppose it could have been worse. He could have applauded. Or fist pumped. Or thrown money.
What I want to know is: what did you say? If you sleep with this guy again (and something tells me you're not) you should keep one of those air horns handy. If he says "thank you" again, just reach for the air horn and let loose a loud, mighty honk.
Or better yet, just respond "You better thank me."
No! If he says it again, just start crying.
But, like I wrote, something tells me you won't be sleeping with him again.
The hubby and I always say thank you after sex, and we do it pretty often. We just appreciate the closeness and the good feelings.
Nothing wrong with being polite, sheez. Although, he should take some advice and toss in some more "Wow!" type expressions.
Alternatively, he might just be a bit awkward and/or shy and that was just the first thing that came to mind to say.
maybe he had a really good orgasm... i mean he could have been needing it... not necessarily missing out on sex, but missing out on good sex.
way to go team brighter side
I laughed so hard at Reformed Player's response that I had tears.
Aww poor polite guy probably hadn't had any for awhile and the Reformed Player is throwing a cock block.
Maybe it just came out. I had that happen to me. He was walking me out after an enjoyable evening and he said it. It took me until I got in my car to be like 'what?!'. In a conversation later he apologized and laughed at himself. He said right after he said it he was thinking 'Did I really just say thank you?! I'm such a dork!' I think the fact that he realized how silly it sounded and could laugh at himself is adorable. Maybe he's just polite, or maybe his brain was just in an after-sex haze. Either way don't write the guy off... there's about a million horrible thing he could have said.
My boyfriend and I often thank each other, but it's more like a, "Damn, I couldn't have done that without you" or "Anyone else would've sucked, and you rocked it out, so thanks." Sometimes if it's REALLY good, it's like you're almost grateful that you had the chance to experience THAT instead of some 15-minute yawn-fest where you act enthused, ya know?
omg me and my boo thang had sex for the 1st time after knowing one another for 22 years. I finally gave him some and I closed the walls around him and sucked every inch of him in and he was like Oh My God... a loud and demanding kind. The best he ever had kind. He clapsed in it and layed there almost like he could have stayed there for hours on end. THEN HE MESSED MY HEAD UP AND SAID THANK YOU. I WAS LIKE WTF... HE SNATCHED THE POWER I HAD OVER HIM RIGHT BACK. HE LOVES TO BE IN CONTROL, SO I SAID THAT WAS THE BEST 2MINUTES EVER.....
I met a girl a while back and we had sex one night. I ate her so good she came 5 times in less than 3 minutes and a couple hours later when we were saying goodbye she thanked me for the sex. At first I thought it was strange but then I took it as a compliment. Then we banged a couple more times after that. Sometimes it depends on context. If the sex was good, thank you could mean they are thankful that you gave them such great orgasms. If the sex was horrible, then it could probably be sarcastic.