It means he's married, engaged, or has a girlfriend. There are few more obvious signs of a cheater than a guy who won't share basic personal information.
Why else wouldn't he give you his phone number? He's not playing hard to get-- he doesn't want you to call because his wife might see the number on his caller ID and get suspicious. And he won't tell you where he lives because there is another woman living there and she isn't his roommate.
He only calls you at work because he has something to hide. Does he always call from his work number? Assuming his wife isn't also his boss, she won't be checking his phone records at work.
Honestly, unless he's a spy or in the witness protection program, he's attached and looking to cheat. He's carrying on a secret life. Why do you want to be a part of it?
Why else wouldn't he give you his phone number? He's not playing hard to get-- he doesn't want you to call because his wife might see the number on his caller ID and get suspicious. And he won't tell you where he lives because there is another woman living there and she isn't his roommate.
He only calls you at work because he has something to hide. Does he always call from his work number? Assuming his wife isn't also his boss, she won't be checking his phone records at work.
Honestly, unless he's a spy or in the witness protection program, he's attached and looking to cheat. He's carrying on a secret life. Why do you want to be a part of it?
I sent the above message and you're right I dont want to be part of this hot mess! He was my first boyfriend from age 13 to 19 years of age. Back then I felt he was sneaky so I walked away. Fast foward since leaving him I have met up with him between the years hmmm maybe every 6 to 8 years and now that we are in our forties we have ran into each other again. He told me he once was married but, is not anymore. He asked for my home number and addres and i gave it freely since I have been single aleast 7 to 8 years. I asked for his home number and address a few times with no response. Then last night I insisted. I could sense his frustration about and he got off the phone. Later he called back and left a message with his address but, not his phone number. Soooo that being said I am turned off by what I know and feel. I dont want to give up our friendship since I've known him (12 yrs old) but, he's insisting on sleeping with me and whatever more. How do i keep my childhood friend without him trying to cross the line. I am no hme wrecker
Yeah, if he was sneaky in the past that should tell you something. He could have turned over a new leaf, but so far he isn't showing it. If he was actually divorced, I don't see the harm in giving you his number. Maybe he's in the process of getting divorced but it isn't finalized and he doesn't want the wife to think he's been cheating. If nothing else, he's not being completely truthful.
Ok you're right I dont want to be involved in a hot mess. This guy was my first boyfriend from age 13 to 19yrs of age. He had sneaky ways that I didnt care for so I left him. Over the yrs we hooked up a few times maybe every 6 to 8 yrs. Now we are in our forties and he wants to hook up again. He asked for my home number and address I gave it to him since i've been single aleast 8 yrs. Anyway when I asked him for his he seemed a little fraustrated and blew me off. last night I asked for it again and he said he'd call me back, when he did he left his "home" address but, not his "home" number on my voice mail. I am not a home wrecker so i'm killing this "fling" thing off. I would like to keep my childhood friend but, i dont wanna hookup(i've known him since i was 11 or 12yrs old) His sis and I were child hood friends since 5yrs of age. what now? I did tell him I WILL NOT sleep with a married man! he says he's divorced (yeah right) whatcha think?
All you did there was rephrase your previous posts. You know Nick's answer.
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I think you should also consider how truthful your friend has been to you, not just in the romance department but in general.
Is he really worth the friendship you are offering after what seems to be a very shady way of handling himself when it comes to giving you his information? Friendships are build on trust and respect. Start with that, because obviously he doesn't seem to have that for you.
I am talking to someone like that now, he calls me only at work, won't give me his phone number or any info and black his number he says he works a lot since he's a doctor he told me he's not marry but why r the blockage?! He also tells me he live his life private
I had a guy asked me out named mike czerwinski evergreen park high school class 96. He cheated on me from 96-10 with a bunch of girls when he supposed to be my fiance. I gave up school and my dreams for him. We went to high school and college together. I gave him my phone number and address. He was going around telling people he was my gf, but he wouldn't give me his phone or address. He asked me out on sat said had to go nephew birthday. He asked me out monday and said he had to go to a football game. He kept cancel and changing dates. Maybe if we went out for a year he would give me his phone number and address.