One of three things:
1. He wants a night out with his friends and doesn't want you around. If so, he's a big jerk for not just asking, "Hey, is it cool if I go hang with my pals tonight? It's Mike's birthday party and he wants it to be just the guys. I'll be back around 11, and we'll watch The Daily Show together and bang."
2. He is mad about something, and keeping it to himself for some reason. Going to a party and not inviting you is his passive aggressive way of showing you that he's pissed.
3. He wants to flirt with other girls and/or cheat on you.
And that's....pretty much it. Either way, he should explain himself. If he wants to go by himself, he should tell you why. Plain and simple. Doing stuff separately is perfectly legit; leaving you home alone with no explanation is not.
Confront him on it. Don't let him get away with it. And then go to a raging party on a Friday night and leave him behind. That'll change his behavior right quick.
1. He wants a night out with his friends and doesn't want you around. If so, he's a big jerk for not just asking, "Hey, is it cool if I go hang with my pals tonight? It's Mike's birthday party and he wants it to be just the guys. I'll be back around 11, and we'll watch The Daily Show together and bang."
2. He is mad about something, and keeping it to himself for some reason. Going to a party and not inviting you is his passive aggressive way of showing you that he's pissed.
3. He wants to flirt with other girls and/or cheat on you.
And that's....pretty much it. Either way, he should explain himself. If he wants to go by himself, he should tell you why. Plain and simple. Doing stuff separately is perfectly legit; leaving you home alone with no explanation is not.
Confront him on it. Don't let him get away with it. And then go to a raging party on a Friday night and leave him behind. That'll change his behavior right quick.
Very well said Nicky. That's pretty lame of your boyfriend to just up and leave...that's unfair. You should most definitely confront him, in a non-confrontational way of course (yeah, you figure it out). Let him know that it bugs you, and offer a possible solution. Good Luck OP
Keep in mind that if he does this OFTEN, he is probably cheating or looking to meet new girls. Every now and then isn't a big deal, but if you get the feeling you're being purposely excluded, he's up to no good.
Kind of agree with the first one. I had an ex who thought she was one of the boys and as soon as I mentioned hanging out with them she'd jump on the chance to join in. Only problem? All the boys agreed she was a nice girl but an absolute pain in the ass to have around, jumping in where she wasn't wanted/didn't belong. Tactful hints and straight out spelling the situation out didn't stop her from still trying to fit in at every opportunity.
Anyway my point is that a guy's not necessarily a dick if he doesn't keep his girl informed of every event on his social calendar, let alone inviting her along, sometimes personal space has to be recognised and respected, and if it's not, bets are off.
This is happening to do me,
I just dont understand why he does not include me in anything. Every night he on his phone texting and he locks his phone, which i understand but i ask him if i can have the password, because what if something happens and i cant call because his phone is lock and i do not have no phone around what am i going to do. So it upsets me because he does let me know, if someone that loves me should trust me and tell me because what is there to hide. Then he brought a concert ticket with out me knowing and only brought one, did not let me know or even ask if i want to come. He drinks everynight and when he goes out to the bar he comes home with throw up all over the place, falls on the floor and passes out. I have to clean it up, he flirts with girls in front of me and said it his cousine. I do not know what to do, I have a six month baby and a four year old daughter from a different dad that beat me. Plus he pushes my buttons for no reason. I am scared because i do not know what to do, Please help me...
I mean the six month baby is his but my four year old is from a different person.
I feel like am stuck?
You should get a sitter and start going out too, but not same places as him. Do the same to him.