For the life of me, I don’t understand why women tend to get upset that men are looking at other women, even in the midst of a passionate and fully committed relationship. Think about it, he’d almost have to go out of his way to NOT look at other women seeing as his choices are either look at men or women.
And I’m guessing you don’t want him checking out other men.
But you asked what goes through our minds so I’ll take a crack at that. Take a gander, a goose if you must:
Wow, look at that chick over there. She’s hot. But she doesn’t seem to be paying attention to where she’s going. She’s hot, though. I hope she doesn’t get hit by a car. It sucks when hot chicks get hit by a car. I mean it’s bad when ugly chicks get hit by a car but its even worser when hot chicks get hit by a car. Is worser a word? I have no clue. I wonder if I’ll look dumb if I ask my girl if “worser” is a word. I have no clue about that either. Man, I’m all out of clues today. Luckily I’m not out of awesome though. Dude, you rock. You rock AND you’re awesome. You’re awesome rock, like Nirvana, though some folks might say they weren’t rock, like AC/DC or something. Man, I hope I paid my electricity bill. It would blow if my power got cut off again. Holy crap she’s about to get hit by that car…oh no, he slowed down. Must be because she’s hot. She has a nice rack too. I didn’t notice that before. Kind of like that commercial with the…oh wait, my girlfriend is talking to me now…FOCUS.
I’m guessing it probably goes something like that. Now, see, just because he looks at other women doesn’t mean he loves you less or is any less passionate about you. It just means that he’s human and prone to do what humans do: use their eyes to see what’s in front of them so that we do not bump into anything.
Just be glad he’s not fondling anybody like I’d imagine Stevie Wonder would do. Blind guys have all the fun.
It was written.